Discussion At what age do relationships become an oldcel cope?

GentlemanSupremacy

GentlemanSupremacy

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Jul 6, 2024
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I think that the most important years to be in a relationships are teens - mid 20s. That's when everything is new, you're energetic, attractive, have a high libido etc etc this is common sense and has been discussed before.

But my question is what age do you think relationships just become a cope for oldcels that don't want to die alone? I think it's late 20s/ early 30s/ marriage age.
I just see no reason why I would ever want to be with a woman older than 25 or so.
What would you even talk to the decaying nigga about? your mortgage? lol. I already spent most of my best relationship years alone gooning into my sock in my parents' basement.

I used to tell myself that i'm just being edgy and eventually i'll find a gf and leave all this shit behind but I am almost certain that it's not going to happen now. I'm a certified unc (24) next year and I haven't even had a whiff of pussy that I didn't pay for. Women wanted nothing to do with me during my youth and i'm not going to settle down with some hag that gave her best years to other men just because i'm afraid of getting old alone.

TL;DR we're ridin' solo, niggers
 
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burn

burn

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I feel like 19-21
Cuz many guys dont have a gf in their teen years, and so many are late bloomers that are ugly when they are young and become better looking at their late teens early 20s, but if ur like 18+ its kinda over, at 21+ over
 
GentlemanSupremacy

GentlemanSupremacy

4 inch man of culture
Jul 6, 2024
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I feel like 19-21
Cuz many guys dont have a gf in their teen years, and so many are late bloomers that are ugly when they are young and become better looking at their late teens early 20s, but if ur like 18+ its kinda over, at 21+ over
I think if I found a gf at 21 I still would’ve turned out somewhat normal. Late bloomer and mentally fucked but I could’ve still kept some sanity. Now it’s beyond over. I’m still afraid of even looking at foids like i’m some shy 11 year old.
 
Raven

Raven

"And the clock waits so patiently on your song"
Oct 20, 2024
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probably sometime in your forties. Before that it goes like this.

14-21 sex and love, i feel great
22-25: sex is great and love is too ig?
26-29: time to settle down, I want a baby NOW
30-39: ok I hate this bitch I wanna divorce. *they divorce or stick it through cuz it's easier*
40s: give in to Stockholm syndrome. They know if they divorce the bitch now, no one else will love them so they stick it through til death do them part
 
burn

burn

Went back in 2021 ★★★★★
Jul 17, 2024
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I think if I found a gf at 21 I still would’ve turned out somewhat normal. Late bloomer and mentally fucked but I could’ve still kept some sanity. Now it’s beyond over. I’m still afraid of even looking at foids like i’m some shy 11 year old.
Ur more mentally well than me for sure, at 18 i have same mindset as u at 23, i feel like a 70yr old men mentally sometimes, who knows maybe if i got some pussy rn or next year my whole mentality would change but nah im too far gone
 
Raven

Raven

"And the clock waits so patiently on your song"
Oct 20, 2024
959
Ur more mentally well than me for sure, at 18 i have same mindset as u at 23, i feel like a 70yr old men mentally sometimes, who knows maybe if i got some pussy rn or next year my whole mentality would change but nah im too far gone
at 19, I feel far too gone too. Felt this way prob since I was like 15ish, maybe 16ish
 
GentlemanSupremacy

GentlemanSupremacy

4 inch man of culture
Jul 6, 2024
4,269
Ur more mentally well than me for sure, at 18 i have same mindset as u at 23, i feel like a 70yr old men mentally sometimes, who knows maybe if i got some pussy rn or next year my whole mentality would change but nah im too far gone
I was the same as you at 18. It was the most brutal time of my life. I was walking around for 3-5 hours per day in the hope i’d bump into my oneitis that I fumbled and she’d talk to me. I cried everyday and my life was overall extremely miserable. I’m much better mentally now but I know it’s temporary, if nothing changes and I become old i’m going to go actually insane. Everything will come crashing down and i’m genuinely scared of that happening
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Raven

Raven

"And the clock waits so patiently on your song"
Oct 20, 2024
959
Same stats, at 15 i fell into this depressive mindset, at 16 i gave up, at 18 i FULLY gave up, idk wtf im waiting for rn tbh death would be better than waiting
i'm waiting around for death. It's gonna take a while and if thing's get exponentially worse im just gonna off myself. For now though I let time pass me by. I don't do anything. just consume entertainment. But you can always fall further into giving up. You haven't given up with connecting with others yet.
 
Schizo

Schizo

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Jul 24, 2024
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I think that the most important years to be in a relationships are teens - mid 20s. That's when everything is new, you're energetic, attractive, have a high libido etc etc this is common sense and has been discussed before.

But my question is what age do you think relationships just become a cope for oldcels that don't want to die alone? I think it's late 20s/ early 30s/ marriage age.
I just see no reason why I would ever want to be with a woman older than 25 or so.
What would you even talk to the decaying nigga about? your mortgage? lol. I already spent most of my best relationship years alone gooning into my sock in my parents' basement.

I used to tell myself that i'm just being edgy and eventually i'll find a gf and leave all this shit behind but I am almost certain that it's not going to happen now. I'm a certified unc (24) next year and I haven't even had a whiff of pussy that I didn't pay for. Women wanted nothing to do with me during my youth and i'm not going to settle down with some hag that gave her best years to other men just because i'm afraid of getting old alone.

TL;DR we're ridin' solo, niggers
It's completely over once you are 28 tbh. Yeah I mean it's still possible but you technically missed out the good part which is having a rs when ur young. I agree with teens to mid20s. But After 28 It's kind of over. Women literally thinks it's a red flag to be a virgin at 20. So imagine if khhv and 28-30
 
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Schizo

Schizo

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Jul 24, 2024
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It's completely over once you are 28 tbh. Yeah I mean it's still possible but you technically missed out the good part which is having a rs when ur young. I agree with teens to mid20s. But After 28 It's kind of over. Women literally thinks it's a red flag to be a virgin at 20. So imagine if khhv and 28-30
I'd probably give up once I'm 25 , but for now I'll keep trying. Maybe I'll try talking to women more and be more nt nt nt nt nt nt nt nt nt nt nt. I'll just focus on being NT since there's no looksmaxxing for me
 
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