Depression Browsing forums makes me depressed nowadays

[Deleted member 2099]

I keep checking for notifs and it makes me stuck in this bad cycle of wanting validation..

Also most forum users nowadays don't use to it to vent or feel connected but to be some kind of micro celebs which really pisses me off, i feel BETTER talking with normies nowadays because at least they try to hide their obnoxiousness but on forum people say whatever the fuck they want just to feel more superior.

It wasn't always the case but so many good users leaves the forum or get banned and the bad users keeps flooding the forum with their obnoxious persona

Also the forums are the only time i actually got notification of someone (beyond brutal) and i check the forum every 2 minute just to see if i got that alert for my neurotransmitters to be satisfied but instead i just feel miserable for not getting what i wanted, i don't know if anyone felt like this but i really feel like some attention whore foid crying for not getting enough dms or likes for a day

 

[Brother Wagecuck]

they dont make me depressed but they dont bring me ultimate fulfillment.

 

[GentlemanSupremacy]

I’m only still on these forums because I have 0 life tbh but I need some socialization so I don’t go insane. I don’t believe you can truly enjoy shitholes like .is and .org past the age of 20 or so without being mentally stunted.

This entire blackpill shit is just edgy kid stuff that you should grow out of once you touch grass.
The fact that there’s 25+ grown men talking about “Chad” with literal 14yos there is extremely depressing. It’s like being permanently stuck in high school.

 

[parzurnacs]

Spend less time on the internet, grab a book and start reading. I was feeling like this some time ago, did this and my mental state started improving.

The internet should be a complement to your life, if you make it a central part instead you're gonna feel more and more miserable as time goes on, since on the internet social relationships aren't authentic.

 

[Deleted member 2099]

Spend less time on the internet, grab a book and start reading. I was feeling like this some time ago, did this and my mental state started improving.

The internet should be a complement to your life, if you make it a central part instead you're gonna feel more and more miserable as time goes on, since on the internet social relationships aren't authentic.

Thanks for the advice! Will do this from today!

 

[Deleted member 2099]

I’m only still on these forums because I have 0 life tbh but I need some socialization so I don’t go insane. I don’t believe you can truly enjoy shitholes like .is and .org past the age of 20 or so without being mentally stunted.

This entire blackpill shit is just edgy kid stuff that you should grow out of once you touch grass.
The fact that there’s 25+ grown men talking about “Chad” with literal 14yos there is extremely depressing. It’s like being permanently stuck in high school.

So you mean the blackpill will have no effect on me for being a manlet sub5? Or can i ascend by social circle maxxing?

 

[Brother Wagecuck]

Spend less time on the internet, grab a book and start reading. I was feeling like this some time ago, did this and my mental state started improving.

The internet should be a complement to your life, if you make it a central part instead you're gonna feel more and more miserable as time goes on, since on the internet social relationships aren't authentic.

not to mention all the edgy crap will drive you mad. it gets old.

 

[GentlemanSupremacy]

So you mean the blackpill will have no effect on me for being a manlet sub5? Or can i ascend by social circle maxxing?

I don’t necessarily mean that looks don’t matter. Obviously they do but they’re just one part of the puzzle. IRL most guys having sex are just bland looking normies, not some mythical Chadderino that indians jerk off to on .is and .org.
If you’re actually below average and non-NT then obviously it’s going to be a problem.

 

[Saladino]

Spend less time on the internet, grab a book and start reading. I was feeling like this some time ago, did this and my mental state started improving.

The internet should be a complement to your life, if you make it a central part instead you're gonna feel more and more miserable as time goes on, since on the internet social relationships aren't authentic.

what book