Catfish talking about money all of a sudden

[anon1822fourthacc]

I'm making declarations of love and shit so as to coax this bitch to go out with me cause she's been friendzoning me, playing coy and mentally ill. Complaining about her problems and pains (medical shit too) and that's why I can't even ask her to meet cause she just says she is super fucked rn.

Anyway, she drifts from my declarations of love to money all of a sudden? Felt very weird.

Check the translated transcripts:

ME: I like you, why would I ever change my mind? I don't need more than one girl and you are wonderful. A beautiful, interesting personality. A good soul. And even your anxieties and complexes make me want to hold you and kiss you and tell you how wonderful you are and tell you that everything is going to be okay
Catfish: I hope your words and presence bring a smile to my face
Catfish: And not only that
Catfish: To communicate
Me: That's how it will be, you will smile a lot and you will be loved from the heart
ME: and when you're sad, tell me everything that's on your mind, maybe at least the outpouring of your worries will make you feel better, at least you'll feel loved and with a peace of mind that someone listens to you and loves you
Catfish: Well, I want to collect some money and put it aside
Catfish: But I feel like I don't have enough
Catfish: I didn't make that much this summer
ME: What do you have in mind?
Catfish: By the way I don't have financial resources
Catfish: As a student
Catfish: I hope to have them soon
ME: Wow, your life is harder than I thought. Don't you live with your parents?
Catfish: I live
Catfish: Sure
Catfish: That's a big plus
Catfish: Just not for long
ME: do you want to move?

Isn't that shit fucking weird? And the weirdest part is that she just ghosts me for a while after me asking any questions. Doesn't go too far into it, doesn't ask for money. I guess the catfish is planting the seed for later.

I'm pressing the pedal extra hard on "loving her" and declaring lovey dovey shit, hoping this will make the catfish think I'm truly in love with this bitch and stupid enough to give her money.

But god damn they're taking a long ass time, I've invested like 3 weeks + into her already. Such smart and patient scammers holy shit.

 

[anon1822fourthacc]

I'll keep saying how hard her life is and how bad she has it. But I think the catfish is waiting for me to offer money. I won't do that, I want them to ask me. I keep saying how hard she has it like "omg that's so tough you have such a hard life, and you need to pay for uni too? Omg you worked so hard all summer just to have to waste it on that omg poor soul"

 

[IGiveUp]

Me: That's how it will be, you will smile a lot and you will be loved from the heart

Bro got that rizz

 

[anon1822fourthacc]

Maybe the scammer expects you to go full paypiggy mode and insist on sending money without even asking?

Yeah I think they are trying to make me offer it by myself but we're just wasting each other's time, I don't even pay for hookers despite being a huge horny pervert virgin just cause I hate spending money. I don't even buy food even though I'd love to eat good shit every day.

 

[Based Vampire]

ME: I like you, why would I ever change my mind? I don't need more than one girl and you are wonderful. A beautiful, interesting personality. A good soul. And even your anxieties and complexes make me want to hold you and kiss you and tell you how wonderful you are and tell you that everything is going to be okay
Catfish: I hope your words and presence bring a smile to my face
Catfish: And not only that
Catfish: To communicate
Me: That's how it will be, you will smile a lot and you will be loved from the heart
ME: and when you're sad, tell me everything that's on your mind, maybe at least the outpouring of your worries will make you feel better, at least you'll feel loved and with a peace of mind that someone listens to you and loves you
Catfish: Well, I want to collect some money and put it aside
Catfish: But I feel like I don't have enough
Catfish: I didn't make that much this summer
ME: What do you have in mind?
Catfish: By the way I don't have financial resources
Catfish: As a student
Catfish: I hope to have them soon
ME: Wow, your life is harder than I thought. Don't you live with your parents?
Catfish: I live
Catfish: Sure
Catfish: That's a big plus
Catfish: Just not for long
ME: do you want to move?

you really seem like a 'nice guy'. Unfortunately this means nothing to women unless you're good looking.

I know I'm always repeating myself, but I will say it again: this life is just a joke.

 

[wintersdream]

Bro got that rizz

That rizz ain’t getting him anything unfortunately

 

[anon1822fourthacc]

Bro got that rizz

Lmao yeah that's how I talk to this bitch, I hope to make her fall in love with me and depend on me for emotional support or some shit, cause I'm fucking ugly and poor I have nothing else going for me

This is how I talk to her:

"And by the way, because you have complexes about how you look physically. I don't care what you look like, let's say you have no teeth or something haha I still don't care. We have been talking for a long time already, I felt who you are, it's like I know you quite well, I like your soul. So I really don't care what you look like, it doesn't bother me at all whatever complexes you might have, on the contrary it just makes me want to kiss you and hold you tight, make you feel appreciated and loved, and- you can tell me anything knowing that you will only feel love from me (heart)"

"Not at all, I like that you are like that, introverted and even your complexes and problems I like. It's like I want to embrace you and be the emotional help you need. To kiss you and tell you that everything is fine. Sorry to ramble but what can I say, I like you the way you are"

" all these "flaws" you told me about are part of what I like about you. I like many things, you have a warm and beautiful soul, but these flaws are also beautiful. I love the whole package, you are amazing and I want to be able to make you feel good when you are feeling stressed, depressed and anxious"

"I want you to know that when you feel anxiety and depression, you can tell me honestly every time, you can tell me a hundred times the same thing and not only will you not irritate me, but I will love that we are so close at heart"

 

[Based Vampire]

as for the money issue I don't find it strange. It would be suspicious if she was asking you straight.

I also have a question: has your infatuation weakened? I haven't texted the girl i was writing about for a couple of days now and practically dont care already

 

[IGiveUp]

Lmao yeah that's how I talk to this bitch, I hope to make her fall in love with me and depend on me for emotional support or some shit, cause I'm fucking ugly and poor I have nothing else going for me

This is how I talk to her:

"And by the way, because you have complexes about how you look physically. I don't care what you look like, let's say you have no teeth or something haha I still don't care. We have been talking for a long time already, I felt who you are, it's like I know you quite well, I like your soul. So I really don't care what you look like, it doesn't bother me at all whatever complexes you might have, on the contrary it just makes me want to kiss you and hold you tight, make you feel appreciated and loved, and- you can tell me anything knowing that you will only feel love from me (heart)"

"Not at all, I like that you are like that, introverted and even your complexes and problems I like. It's like I want to embrace you and be the emotional help you need. To kiss you and tell you that everything is fine. Sorry to ramble but what can I say, I like you the way you are"

" all these "flaws" you told me about are part of what I like about you. I like many things, you have a warm and beautiful soul, but these flaws are also beautiful. I love the whole package, you are amazing and I want to be able to make you feel good when you are feeling stressed, depressed and anxious"

"I want you to know that when you feel anxiety and depression, you can tell me honestly every time, you can tell me a hundred times the same thing and not only will you not irritate me, but I will love that we are so close at heart"

Invite us to your wedding, if she isn’t a catfish of course…

 

[anon1822fourthacc]

as for the money issue I don't find it strange. It would be suspicious if she was asking you straight.

I also have a question: has your infatuation weakened? I haven't texted the girl i was writing about for a couple of days now and practically dont care already

Nope, when I say nice things to her I literally feel my chest get warm and get a slight boner, it's like I just want to hug her and kiss her and listen to her tell me about her problems and hug her and tell her it's all going to be ok

 

[wintersdream]

you really seem like a 'nice guy'. Unfortunately this means nothing to women unless you're good looking.

I know I'm always repeating myself, but I will say it again: this life is just a joke.

Agreed but if your a chad and you act like that, chances are you’re going get dumped fast imo might be wrong tho!

 

[anon1822fourthacc]

Agreed but if your a chad and you act like that, chances are you’re going get dumped fast imo

Yeah tbh any normal woman would have been disgusted by some dude saying such sweet things to a person they've never even met, before the first date even. So she's either super fucking weird and mentally ill or a catfish.

 

[Based Vampire]

Agreed but if your a chad and you act like that, chances are you’re going get dumped fast imo might be wrong tho!

Yeah tbh any normal woman would have been disgusted by some dude saying such sweet things to a person they've never even met, before the first date even. So she's either super fucking weird and mentally ill or a catfish.

you're probably right guys. you lose value if you start catering too much. Not that i have any actual idea how this shit works, dont even talk to women

 

[anon1822fourthacc]

you're probably right guys. you lose value if you start catering too much. Not that i have any actual idea how this shit works, dont even talk to women

This is the only angle I have though. I've looked at all angles:

1. I'm a bald fat fuck.
2. I'm poor (she doens't really know that, might think I have money idk)
3. I'm not funny in my native language or with women, I'm only funny with edgy online shit that I can't say to her or irl
4. I'm not interesting, charismatic or charming

So super fucking sweet is the only angle I have. Been pushing the pedal HARD on it, you've read the texts, I'm nauseatingly sweet, letting it all out.

 

[Magonia]

I like you, why would I ever change my mind? I don't need more than one girl and you are wonderful.

She sounds like she has your full attention
Thought shed take care of you before you get post nut clarity.

It seems half the money girls are using their looks for are for guys with terrible pre nut clarity or stupid rich guys

 

[wintersdream]

you're probably right guys. you lose value if you start catering too much. Not that i have any actual idea how this shit works, dont even talk to women

Relax my friend! As long as she is it attracted to you/love at first site! Then you can chill/relax as long as you are not a massive bitch to her at first lol! Just don’t simp for her and put her on a pedestal!

 

[anon1822fourthacc]

She sounds like she has your full attention
Thought shed take care of you before you get post nut clarity.

It seems half the money girls are using their looks for are for guys with terrible pre nut clarity or stupid rich guys

This has been going on for weeks, Karenin showed me an article where some romance scammers can lead you on for months before they ask for moeny. Especially since she knows I'm the paranoid type. Half a year or a year ago when we talked briefly I also freaked out and asked her "wtf are you a scammer or a catfish or something" cause she kept swiping back on me weirdly, kept not talking to me and leaving me on read. Of course even back then I didn't burn the bridge and backpedalled and was instead so sweet she seemed to think I was so sweet. Shit it could be a catfish idk.

 

[Based Vampire]

Relax my friend! As long as she is it attracted to you/love at first site! Then you can chill/relax as long as you are not a massive bitch to her at first lol! Just don’t simp for her and put her on a pedestal!

yep. game and personality bullshit only work if you have the looks and she's already into you. if a woman is attracted to you she WILL let you know and give you signs. Otherwise shouldnt even waste time its over

 

[anon1822fourthacc]

yep. game and personality bullshit only work if you have the looks. if a woman is attracted to you she WILL let you know and give you signs. Otherwise shouldnt even waste time its over

This bitch ain't attracted to me at all, I've had to push extra hard with the love shit, you see how pathetic and loving I've gotten? That was the only way to keep her talking to me, I was losing her, zero interest in me. At least now she responds more often at least. Idk bro half of me thinks it's a catfish half of me thinks it's a girl idk.

 

[NeverEndingWinter]

Why entertain someone you know is a catfish?

 

[anon1822fourthacc]

Why entertain someone you know is a catfish?

I don't know that! It's 50/50. I have no fucking idea which it is.

It's torture tbh so many times I think it's a catfish, so many times I think it's a girl.

There are so many things pointing to both, idk. Logically it makes more sense that it's a catfish tbh. But then again it could just be a very mentally ill anxious girl .... who spent years on dating sites dating various people but all of a sudden she's too shy to even video call me, hmm.

 

[barcamgtow]

ME: and when you're sad, tell me everything that's on your mind, maybe at least the outpouring of your worries will make you feel better, at least you'll feel loved and with a peace of mind that someone listens to you and loves you

 

[KARENIN]

Ask her what she thinks about Antonescu and the ziganLOLcaust

 

[SpacersChoice]

Typical scammer if I've seen one, in my experience they only message you around a certain time then ghost you for awhile until they want money