Venting Coping with loneliness

[クーロ]

This forum being down momentarily reminded me that I have absolutely no one to talk to, online or offline. It's been this way for decades offline but only recently have I reached a stage where I can no longer message random people online and it fucking stings. How do you folks usually deal with this? My typical copes are making music and Vidya but those aren't working anymore...

 

[ZZebra786]

stuff my shorts full of popcorn and see where things take me

 

[Riddler]

Some of loneliness is physiological @Neet194012940 and can be fixed with supplements/diet

In that sense a service dog is literally better than most people. Most people really have nothing to add to your life but you have a need for intellectual stimulation of people

Open invitation, most people have an ultier motive but I'd be happy to talk to you whenever if you need an ear

 

[JCaesar]

For online socialization sometimes join servers to talk for a while or hit up some old online friend I had. Otherwise cope with the usual things or invest that time into something like more pill researching.

Or I remember how easy it used to be making friends and socializing then break down crying inside.

 

[poorcel]

I rawdog it. It's useless to talk Abt it since most people can't relate to you and it's gonna hurt like wet concrete on your head

 

[Lorence]

Oh it's brutal. I have no online friends or in real life friends.

 

[Pirate]

Some of loneliness is physiological @Neet194012940 and can be fixed with supplements/diet

TLDR?

 

[Pirate]

Oh it's brutal. I have no online friends or in real life friends.

IDK call me volfriendcel but i cannot relate to people if they
>they are a women
>they are not mysogynist
The BP has poisoned my mind when i do talk to them i just cant stop thinking "fucking normie"
and the ones who DO fit this description are retarded 14year olds who post CP for fun

 

[Pirate]

For online socialization sometimes join servers to talk for a while or hit up some old online friend I had. Otherwise cope with the usual things or invest that time into something like more pill researching.

Or I remember how easy it used to be making friends and socializing then break down crying inside.

online servers are shit 100% of the time

 

[uglyboi1]

only people i talk to online outside of this forum (which is only in boards never conversations) i known for 10 yrs making friends past early-mid 20s is impossible if sub 6

 

[Riddler]

TLDR?

Neet1940 will be here soon, he's the master here

 

[Pirate]

realistically i'd say past 16

only people i talk to online outside of this forum (which is only in boards never conversations) i known for 10 yrs making friends past early-mid 20s is impossible if sub 6

 

[uglyboi1]

realistically i'd say past 16

i would say past university age is when it becomes truly impossible. 16-22 (if in education) u can still make friends etc if NT and normal looking but once 22+ only people that wanna talk to u are lonely oldcels

 

[Pirate]

i would say past university age is when it becomes truly impossible. 16-22 (if in education) u can still make friends etc if NT and normal looking but once 22+ only people that wanna talk to u are lonely oldcels

bro think about it, your 2 years into high school and you still don't have friends, impossible to make new ones at that point and your social skills are fucked due to sleepoverless nights

 

[mist]

This forum being down momentarily reminded me that I have absolutely no one to talk to, online or offline. It's been this way for decades offline but only recently have I reached a stage where I can no longer message random people online and it fucking stings. How do you folks usually deal with this?

Do you play multiplayer games? Most of the people I know online are through gaming communities.
Maybe try playing something competitively, you could get to know a lot of people through that.
If you get any good, then you get a cope sense of accomplishment.
Would recommend something not extremely mainstream, with more of a tight knit community.

Just an idea to start with, won't fix everything because IRL friendships are still more important.

 

[クーロ]

Do you play multiplayer games? Most of the people I know online are through gaming communities.

Yes. Mainly MMOs rather than competitive ones though. I like Mabinogi and Elsword

 

[Pirate]

Do you play multiplayer games? Most of the people I know online are through gaming communities.
Maybe try playing something competitively, you could get to know a lot of people through that.
If you get any good, then you get a cope sense of accomplishment.
Would recommend something not extremely mainstream, with more of a tight knit community.

Just an idea to start with, won't fix everything because IRL friendships are still more important.

game examples?

 

[uglyboi1]

bro think about it, your 2 years into high school and you still don't have friends, impossible to make new ones at that point and your social skills are fucked due to sleepoverless nights

this is assuming you are non nt. if u are NT and normal looking u can make friends in university every normie fucker does it from what ive witnessed but yes i agree if u never had a proper social circle at high school age u are FUCKED (like me now 24 friendless hermitmaxxed vergin)

 

[Riddler]

only people i talk to online outside of this forum (which is only in boards never conversations) i known for 10 yrs making friends past early-mid 20s is impossible if sub 6

It's possible if NT imo. I've heard of NTs moving cities in their 30s and making friends but it's a different world for them

 

[Deleted member 934]

Get good

 

[Neet194012940]

Some of loneliness is physiological @Neet194012940 and can be fixed with supplements/diet

In that sense a service dog is literally better than most people. Most people really have nothing to add to your life but you have a need for intellectual stimulation of people

Open invitation, most people have an ultier motive but I'd be happy to talk to you whenever if you need an ear

TLDR?

if you're hungry, you probably will feel defeatist thoughts in areas that aren't "impossible to get food". These thoughts might be "true" or "false" if u approach it "rationally", but if u eat food they will go away, if you force yourself to think them again they won't have the power they did over u when u were hungry. Even if u admit they're all true it will seem distant and silly.

this is because your bodies (big % being brain) chemistry was changed. All the thoughts u can have are in your brain, but think them because something like a neurotrasmitter made the signal more powerful.

u can see this with how drinking removes thoughts or stimulants increase the amount of thoughts u have.

when you're lonely u will think about social things, bad memories, defeatism etc because the things in your body that cause lonliness activate these thoughts in your brain. w causes x (lonliness) causes y causes z (the words in your brain). Attempting to socialize because lonliness is working on level z. Taking pro/pregenolone is working on level x.

 

[Pirate]

TLDR on how to fix?

if you're hungry, you probably will feel defeatist thoughts in areas that aren't "impossible to get food". These thoughts might be "true" or "false" if u approach it "rationally", but if u eat food they will go away, if you force yourself to think them again they won't have the power they did over u when u were hungry. Even if u admit they're all true it will seem distant and silly.

this is because your bodies (big % being brain) chemistry was changed. All the thoughts u can have are in your brain, but think them because something like a neurotrasmitter made the signal more powerful.

u can see this with how drinking removes thoughts or stimulants increase the amount of thoughts u have.

when you're lonely u will think about social things, bad memories, defeatism etc because the things in your body that cause lonliness activate these thoughts in your brain. w causes x (lonliness) causes y causes z (the words in your brain). Attempting to socialize because lonliness is working on level z. Taking pro/pregenolone is working on level x.

 

[Neet194012940]

TLDR on how to fix?

www.amazon.com/BulkSupplements-Pregnenolone-Powder-25-Grams/dp/B0784HMTHZ/

a small spoonful of this powder with a bowl of ice cream

 

[Pirate]

Amazon product ASIN B0784HMTHZ
a small spoonful of this powder with a bowl of ice cream

why the ice cream?

 

[Neet194012940]

why the ice cream?

increases dopamine which simulates a good social encounter, candy or any of your favorite sugar based food work too

 

[クーロ]

Amazon product ASIN B0784HMTHZ
a small spoonful of this powder with a bowl of ice cream

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[Friezacel]

I know thats a serious thread but because of the clip i cant take it serious

 

[ShoelessSperg]

This forum being down momentarily reminded me that I have absolutely no one to talk to, online or offline. It's been this way for decades offline but only recently have I reached a stage where I can no longer message random people online and it fucking stings. How do you folks usually deal with this? My typical copes are making music and Vidya but those aren't working anymore...
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You can talk to other odd balls on discord it’s if you want everyone else’s fucked up tendency to rub off on you

 

[The Doctor]

if you're hungry, you probably will feel defeatist thoughts in areas that aren't "impossible to get food". These thoughts might be "true" or "false" if u approach it "rationally", but if u eat food they will go away, if you force yourself to think them again they won't have the power they did over u when u were hungry. Even if u admit they're all true it will seem distant and silly.

this is because your bodies (big % being brain) chemistry was changed. All the thoughts u can have are in your brain, but think them because something like a neurotrasmitter made the signal more powerful.

u can see this with how drinking removes thoughts or stimulants increase the amount of thoughts u have.

when you're lonely u will think about social things, bad memories, defeatism etc because the things in your body that cause lonliness activate these thoughts in your brain. w causes x (lonliness) causes y causes z (the words in your brain). Attempting to socialize because lonliness is working on level z. Taking pro/pregenolone is working on level x.

Yep hypoglycaemia is number one way to certify to yourself that physiology most often dictates outlook/ thought structures and not some actual Platonic truth to it. Even what I just wrote is loaded af with connotations that will be different to a healthy vs unhealthy vs sick vs super healthy guys. Like sick guy would read this

physiology most often dictates outlook/ thought structures and not some actual Platonic truth

and think , oh so theres no truth in anything, everything is just dictated by our frail bodies. lmao life is suffering cnat wait to rope

healthy guy: (and sentient) Oh brutal but Im chilling rn when it ends, it ends . no point in mulling over this shit, time to hit gym/ fuck my whore.

super healthy guy: Lol cant fall from my Garden of Eden state , Ive surpassed the point of ignorance and cant fall back to normie level even if poisoned w PUFA and shut in small room w full darkness, Ill just meditate and be in bliss all the time

(even if the super healthy guy will most probably fall back to normie level again he feels so insanely good in his body that it is inconceivable to him, I think its only possible w esoteric practices and ray peat is jst skipping stone)

@fiddler

 

[Forgotten]

We're all alone, and on NEETs.net, it will only be a matter of time, until someone tries to mock me. At the end of the day, socialization is a big farce, you can't trust people to be loyal decent human beings anymore and so what ends up happening is that retarded normiefags end up getting betrayed over and over again. We're all hated, and we even hate ourselves and infight from time to time.

At the end of the day, anyone can be lonely, even those with friends, because of the degenerate FOMO effect. In my personal opinion, embrace being alone, there's nothing wrong with being alone at the end of the day, after all, no-one outside of my parents and debatably my sisters genuinely cares about me, so why should I care about them? You'll come to find that the world is much more peaceful without the degenerate distractions that normiefag soyceity imposes upon us.

 

[Riddler]

Yep hypoglycaemia is number one way to certify to yourself that physiology most often dictates outlook/ thought structures and not some actual Platonic truth to it. Even what I just wrote is loaded af with connotations that will be different to a healthy vs unhealthy vs sick vs super healthy guys. Like sick guy would read this



and think , oh so theres no truth in anything, everything is just dictated by our frail bodies. lmao life is suffering cnat wait to rope

healthy guy: (and sentient) Oh brutal but Im chilling rn when it ends, it ends . no point in mulling over this shit, time to hit gym/ fuck my whore.

super healthy guy: Lol cant fall from my Garden of Eden state , Ive surpassed the point of ignorance and cant fall back to normie level even if poisoned w PUFA and shut in small room w full darkness, Ill just meditate and be in bliss all the time

(even if the super healthy guy will most probably fall back to normie level again he feels so insanely good in his body that it is inconceivable to him, I think its only possible w esoteric practices and ray peat is jst skipping stone)

@fiddler

The happiest people I've seen are sahelian farmers and I think they basically peat basically converged at what such people have realized for eons

Diet high in dairy products fruit and meat, peak metabolic condition

 

[fat]

it's over

 

[Neet194012940]

The happiest people I've seen are sahelian farmers and I think they basically peat basically converged at what such people have realized for eons

Diet high in dairy products fruit and meat, peak metabolic condition

i want to drink blood

Yep hypoglycaemia is number one way to certify to yourself that physiology most often dictates outlook/ thought structures and not some actual Platonic truth to it. Even what I just wrote is loaded af with connotations that will be different to a healthy vs unhealthy vs sick vs super healthy guys. Like sick guy would read this



and think , oh so theres no truth in anything, everything is just dictated by our frail bodies. lmao life is suffering cnat wait to rope

healthy guy: (and sentient) Oh brutal but Im chilling rn when it ends, it ends . no point in mulling over this shit, time to hit gym/ fuck my whore.

super healthy guy: Lol cant fall from my Garden of Eden state , Ive surpassed the point of ignorance and cant fall back to normie level even if poisoned w PUFA and shut in small room w full darkness, Ill just meditate and be in bliss all the time

(even if the super healthy guy will most probably fall back to normie level again he feels so insanely good in his body that it is inconceivable to him, I think its only possible w esoteric practices and ray peat is jst skipping stone)

@fiddler

i unironically meditate in bliss, what happens for me is whenever i have coffee/thyroid or good metabolism my imagination goes into hyperdrive and gives me all stimulus i want

i just need to fix down cycles