Do you have a borderline personality mother?

[OldAutEP]

get yelled at by m cunt ma to get a mf fucking job and repeat the next day some days i drink most days i drink thinking about a murder suicide rn i just sit around rotting at pc all day ma breathing down my neck by giving me shit all the time im not living just waiting to die

This was a post by someone banned but it got me thinking.
This is exactly like my mother. She was always nagging to do that and this. Get a job and grow independent etc.
But when you try, you feel this overwhelming dread of actually trying.
And when I actually tried, she always started making stupid decisions to make problems so I couldn't finish.
There was never actually any support to grow independent.
The most blatant example was when I moved out from my mothers appartment, she called the cops.
When subtle sabotage of me moving out, didn't work anymore, she panicked and called the cops.
And this is classic behavior from a parent with borderline personality disorder.
They say they want you to grow independent but when you actually try, they sabotage you.
You are the pet of a borderline personality disorder parent.
Borderline personality disorder often stem from being abandoned by a parent as a child.
My mother's father died when she was 12 and I reminded her of her father too much so she couldn't let go of me.

So do you people also have parents that say that they want you to grow independent but when push comes to shove, subtly sabotage you.

 

[160cmcurry]