Does anyone else have these issues?

[lunin5]

Bruh, it’s to the point where I can’t even talk to a cashier.

I get it I have autism, but I can still talk normally and express myself normally without there being bad energy.

I’m always getting intimidated or competed against as a blackpiller.

But everytime I talk to an average person they always talk shit behind my back or sometimes on rare occasions point at me and gossip about me.

Are people naturally like this or is it that no one likes me because I seem weird? Me being facially average (after I cut my hair) doesn’t help my situation either.

 

[Abhorrence]

Yeah I can't get along with anybody and I feel like everyone is gossiping about me

 

[Abhorrence]

Yeah I can't get along with anybody and I feel like everyone is gossiping about me

Don't know if I am just paranoid

 

[despera]

Honestly, I think you are overthinking it because of self-esteem issues.

Talking is hard because people like us need practice to do normie stuff. we dont practice at all.

 

[lunin5]

Don't know if I am just paranoid

Yeah I can't get along with anybody and I feel like everyone is gossiping about me

Same

And even worse I have to meet people to survive, whether I’m going to the store or I need my house fixed, it all is so hard to do when I fear negative reinforcement so much.

 

[AccurateDud]

Same tbh, I guess it really depends on practicing social skills. It's hard when every conversation you have is the same repetitive nonsense people spout. For instance like, "How was your day today?" Or "How are you?" Whenever I hear that again and again it irritates me for some reason because then I feel obligated to say something different each time. Then people find me awkward to talk to.

 

[Abhorrence]

Same

And even worse I have to meet people to survive, whether I’m going to the store or I need my house fixed, it all is so hard to do when I fear negative reinforcement so much.

I am already an anxious paranoid feller and when I was using ADHD meds it put it on overdrive and made me very antisocial I eventually went full hiki then I had to get off the meds

 

[joeveniro]

I have no social anxiety as in like fearing interacting with people. I do however feel like everyone hates me regardless to how I act

 

[Abhorrence]

I have no social anxiety as in like fearing interacting with people. I do however feel like everyone hates me regardless to how I act
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Same
I wish I was a cute anime girl so nobody would hate me

 

[wsada]

Same exact issue i hate myself

 

[MelaninQueen]

need practice

No, you can't "practice" social skills. I'm sorry but if you missed the window during your teenage years, you will not be able to learn those social skills later on.

 

[MelaninQueen]

I have no social anxiety as in like fearing interacting with people. I do however feel like everyone hates me regardless to how I act
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hmmm, haci es hermoso varon

 

[クーロ]

It especially sucks if everything turns into a lecture. Old boomers always give it you straight and don't tolerate any nonsense which would be good when you need it but usually just crushes self esteem

 

[lunin5]

No, you can't "practice" social skills. I'm sorry but if you missed the window during your teenage years, you will not be able to learn those social skills later on.

Well iḿ 18, is it over for me?

 

[MelaninQueen]

Well iḿ 18, is it over for me?

...

It is definitely over for you, I'm sorry.

 

[despera]

No, you can't "practice" social skills. I'm sorry but if you missed the window during your teenage years, you will not be able to learn those social skills later on.

Agreed but OP is having hard time talking to random cashiers, you can practice talking to a cashier at least.. very basic social stuff should be doable

 

[Saito]

I get stared at and talked about behind my back on a daily basis. It's aggravating. But I've learned to not let it get to me.

 

[wsada]

No, you can't "practice" social skills. I'm sorry but if you missed the window during your teenage years, you will not be able to learn those social skills later on.

I'm still in my teen years any advice bro please

 

[lunin5]

Agreed but OP is having hard time talking to random cashiers, you can practice talking to a cashier at least.. very basic social stuff should be doable

I usually say hello and thats about it, but sometimes the cashiers would start a conversation and it would put me on the deadline to start interacting with them.

 

[MelaninQueen]

I'm still in my teen years any advice bro please

If you're neurotypical, you'll know how to handle yourself.

 

[Deleted member 2206]

Autism makes you like an alien/bug to normgroids. The fact that you don't communicate your feelings in their language leads them to the false conclusion that you have no feelings, and thus it's totally fine to trample over a bug with no feelings.

Normgroid logic is 'let's pretend to be inclusive of and accept disorders', they will say this and then proceed to not accept any of the actual symptoms because it's all for social points/virtual signalling. What I've noticed is that instead of directly calling you a slur now, normies will call autistic men 'creeps', 'incels' or 'weirdos' to try and put them down without directly referencing the thing they do not like - i.e neuroatypicality among many other things. Of course the abberant eye movement and lack of nonverbal cues make you a de facto 'weirdo' regardless of your actual disposition, because normies find the movement uncanny.

My only advice is to isolate from other people. Do not be misdirected by the normie's claims, they will never accept you into their horde. Immerse yourself in your special interests and try and live a peaceful and self-sustained life.

 

[MelaninQueen]

Autism makes you like an alien/bug to normgroids. The fact that you don't communicate your feelings in their language leads them to the false conclusion that you have no feelings, and thus it's totally fine to trample over a bug with no feelings.

Normgroid logic is 'let's pretend to be inclusive of and accept disorders', they will say this and then proceed to not accept any of the actual symptoms because it's all for social points/virtual signalling. What I've noticed is that instead of directly calling you a slur now, normies will call autistic men 'creeps', 'incels' or 'weirdos' to try and put them down without directly referencing the thing they do not like - i.e neuroatypicality among many other things. Of course the abberant eye movement and lack of nonverbal cues make you a de facto 'weirdo' regardless of your actual disposition, because normies find the movement uncanny.

My only advice is to isolate from other people. Do not be misdirected by the normie's claims, they will never accept you into their horde. Immerse yourself in your special interests and try and live a peaceful and self-sustained life.

Even the "nerd" outsider group in my former high school rejected me. I was one of the puppies following them around.