Hello everybody I am Mark Hall and Im joining this forum because my therapist said it would be good for social skills

[ruff]

Hello everybody its so nice to meet you! I came to this forum because this is the first search result I got when typing in NEET forum
So a little bit of background about me I'm a 22 year old university dropout from the UK born and bred in Lancashire. I was diagnosed with autism and this makes social interaction quite difficult with others so my therapy woman named Molly told me to meet new people and here we are, but... honestly I think it is much easier for her because people just gather around her and she has had lots of boyfriends so I think its a bit patronizing for her to talk to me like a kid, she is always chatting to people like its nothing but for me its like Im a sad little puppy that nobody wants to pet or talk to but I guess I have that dog in me since Im still going strong despite all that ruffhousing

My mum forced me to get the old job I ever had which was working in a warehouse for shillings and there was a guy that would follow me and copy my words like a parrot but in a really high pitched annoying voice so I left because he was a lame creep with a dumb voice, I dont know why people are so weird and creepy nowadays! Am I the only one who sees it? Havent had any jobs since and good riddance!

Id love to know how you guys are dealing with not being in job employment or training. I hope Im not barking up the wrong tree. When I join discord its full of weird creeps that just want to be weird and misogynistic or they act really weird like one time I joined a neet server and there was this guy pretending to be a dog in voice chat but the woman was pretending to be his owner and I was losing my marbles at it because thats so weird but I also found it inspiring because its a subversive depiction of masculine will which is why I name myself ruff. I hope that I can one day I can shed my toxic masculinity like that guy and unleash my beastly nature. Im hoping you guys are pretty cool as the veterans of neethood maybe you can tell me some lifehacks so I can stop being a jobless loser

First of all I would like to build rapport with you, please complete my survey at your convenience
1. Are you a NEET?
2. What jobs have you had?
3. Do you arelso have autism?
4. What kind of tips would you give for a neet going through a ruff patch.

Yours truly,
ruff.

 

[incelkingkong]

hi ruff

 

[ruff]

hi ruff

hello incelkingkong, it is so nice to meet you. Are you the head honcho... ?
I hope I make a good impression. Do you happen to be an neet with the autism? Do you have any secret hustle tips you can give a struggling soul.. Personally Im having a hard time finding employment, and sometimes I think the juice isnt worth the squeeze
yours truly,
ruff.

 

[Rebbington]

hello incelkingkong, it is so nice to meet you. Are you the head honcho... ?
I hope I make a good impression. Do you happen to be an neet with the autism? Do you have any secret hustle tips you can give a struggling soul.. Personally Im having a hard time finding employment, and sometimes I think the juice isnt worth the squeeze
yours truly,
ruff.

It's me I'm the alpha around here but there's always room for a spot as the beta wink wink

 

[Deleted member 105]

Didnt read boio

 

[Papa Roxy]

welcome to the cool kids club

 

[Massimo]

1. Are you a NEET? Yes
2. What jobs have you had? Temp jobs
3. Do you arelso have autism? No
4. What kind of tips would you give for a neet going through a ruff patch. Do taxes And you might get loadsamoney.

 

[ruff]

It's me I'm the alpha around here but there's always room for a spot as the beta wink wink

I dont know what alpha and beta means I think its what the homosexuals call each other. I am not hating you or anythings but I do NOT like that sort of thing. Again I am not being the judgemental you are totally okay to practice that in yoir own times and I would be fully supported of it but I would not do it myself

 

[ruff]

Didnt read boio

Thats okay. Sometimes I am havingf hard time reading things too. I am not being judgemental or anything, maybe try reading small books to build your vocabulary? IN the UK we are reading small books like Charlie and the Chocolate Factory when we were just children to increase our words which allows us to read. Foods for thought

 

[ruff]

welcome to the cool kids club

Thanks, I am hoping to be cool one day

 

[Deleted member 105]

Thanks, I am hoping to be cool one day

you are not human AI bot detected

 

[ruff]

1. Are you a NEET? Yes
2. What jobs have you had? Temp jobs
3. Do you arelso have autism? No
4. What kind of tips would you give for a neet going through a ruff patch. Do taxes And you might get loadsamoney.

Cool. Its so nice to meet you Massimo

 

[ruff]

you are not human AI bot detected

What is with all of these accusations? Why are you people thinking that Im AI. Im not AI okay, Im a real flesh and blood person. I know that I am speaking like a robot sometimes and people said to me before that iI am not a very human speaker, but I think they are just being weird creeps

 

[Deleted member 105]

What is with all of these accusations? Why are you people thinking that Im AI. Im not AI okay, Im a real flesh and blood person. I know that I am speaking like a robot sometimes and people said to me before that iI am not a very human speaker, but I think they are just being weird creeps

boio if your human ur fucked

 

[ruff]

boio if your human ur fucked

I am.not sure what you are meaning. I have said on another thread that I am still a virgin and 22. So I think you having the misconceptions here. Anyway its so nice to meet you klo666ar I think its pretty cool name but what does it mean?

 

[noambition]

Hey… names noambition, but you can just call me amb. Im kinda the head huncho around here so if you need anything let me know *nods head*

 

[SuckyCuckyDuck]

1. Are you a NEET?
Yup. Dropped outta HS and now I'm focused on getting my GED.

2. What jobs have you had?
None. The country I'm born in doesn't have the norm of having a job before getting a college degree.

3. Do you arelso have autism?
Not sure, and I don't like self-diagnosing disorders. It's rather unlikely, but I possibly have some learning disorder.

4. What kind of tips would you give for a neet going through a ruff patch.
To go through a ruff patch, since that's what I'm doing too. I'm not experienced enough to provide advice.

Plus you sound too wholesome for the kind of people on this forum. Nice to see you, Mark!

 

[ruff]

Hey… names noambition, but you can just call me amb. Im kinda the head huncho around here so if you need anything let me know *nods head*

WOw. you making lots of spelling mistakes. Do you have low IQ? Dont worry I am accepting, 'head huncho'. Its so nice to meet you noambition, no pressure even if your ambition is low or not existent. Do you have any tips for a neet my friend, given that you seem to hould a lot of prestiges on the forum, I am interested to see how your gonna develop

 

[ruff]

1. Are you a NEET?
Yup. Dropped outta HS and now I'm focused on getting my GED.

2. What jobs have you had?
None. The country I'm born in doesn't have the norm of having a job before getting a college degree.

3. Do you arelso have autism?
Not sure, and I don't like self-diagnosing disorders. It's rather unlikely, but I possibly have some learning disorder.

4. What kind of tips would you give for a neet going through a ruff patch.
To go through a ruff patch, since that's what I'm doing too. I'm not experienced enough to provide advice.

Plus you sound too wholesome for the kind of people on this forum. Nice to see you, Mark!

Wow a GED, you fancy man. Great job, I not know how to do stuff like that. Its pretty refreshing to speak to a guy thats not all job focused, it seems like every guy now days is like andrew tate trying to hustle and do the business. You seem like a pretty fast learner to me, learning how to be such a cool guy, I like it.. If you are calling me wholesome, I have my own demons that id rather not unleash. Dont we all, am I right? Nobody uis perfect, just got to do the best that we can and avoid the ruff patches. So nice to meet you SuckyCuckyDuck, hope you're not as quackers as some of the folks I meet in the real life

 

[noambition]

WOw. you making lots of spelling mistakes. Do you have low IQ? Dont worry I am accepting, 'head huncho'. Its so nice to meet you noambition, no pressure even if your ambition is low or not existent. Do you have any tips for a neet my friend, given that you seem to hould a lot of prestiges on the forum, I am interested to see how your gonna develop

Hey pal, i only see two grammar mistakes, are you sure your not low iq
Regardless, my tips would be:
-Work hard
-Dont give up
-Be confident
-Dont take the pills
-Cold showers daily

 

[ruff]

Hey pal, i only see two grammar mistakes, are you sure your not low iq
Regardless, my tips would be:
-Work hard
-Dont give up
-Be confident
-Dont take the pills
-Cold showers daily

Thanks for the tips, i dont know my IQ but I think im pretty smart because I was put i nsomething called special education, which is education for smart peoples I think. Youre right in the sense that i am not good with the grammar, so maybe I am learning the things about mmyself today. So nice to meet you noambition

 

[noambition]

Thanks for the tips, i dont know my IQ but I think im pretty smart because I was put i nsomething called special education, which is education for smart peoples I think. Youre right in the sense that i am not good with the grammar, so maybe I am learning the things about mmyself today. So nice to meet you noambition

Special education, im jealous lol

Smartypants
Nice to meet you too

 

[Truckzo]

1. Yeah complete and total loser.
2. Never had a job (hope that changes soon).
3. I'm not diagnosed because my mom didn't want it to be so, I think I'm overly good at masking towards people who don't know me all too well.
4. I'd say drugs or awaken your inner spark or whatever and fix your life.

 

[glitch]

this is an incel forum

 

[ruff]

1. Yeah complete and total loser.
2. Never had a job (hope that changes soon).
3. I'm not diagnosed because my mom didn't want it to be so, I think I'm overly good at masking towards people who don't know me all too well.
4. I'd say drugs or awaken your inner spark or whatever and fix your life.

Hey. Its okay I know that some people are not choose to be the loser. Ive been in your situations before and let me tell you its gonna get better. As for your career I am wishing you the best. I am not enjoying the drugs but I have heard some people are liking them and am trying to open the mind, can you tell me if this is good or bad, I am waiting for your responses with interest
kind regards,
mark

 

[ruff]

this is an incel forum

Listen buddy. I have searched up this term and i think you are wrong because its a neet forum not an incell forum. I think there are lots of incels on instagram because i went on there and people were making mean comments against disabled people. I just want. to say that i am NOT mean like that I am trying to be acceptive of all disabilty

 

[Dominic Marsden]

i'm in Lancashire aswell

also diagnosed with aspergers

 

[Truckzo]

I am not enjoying the drugs but I have heard some people are liking them and am trying to open the mind, can you tell me if this is good or bad, I am waiting for

drugs are awesome if you find what you like, I fw any kind of pill and weed, mainly weed though, you'll want either indica or hybrid because it makes you more relaxed. Or sativa if you want a temporary IQ boost, I've never smoked it and interacted with others sadly so I wouldn't know of its IQ boost though.

Also its about who you do the drugs with more than the drugs themselves so if you have associates you should smoke with them

 

[Deleted member 3361]

Hello everybody its so nice to meet you! I came to this forum because this is the first search result I got when typing in NEET forum
So a little bit of background about me I'm a 22 year old university dropout from the UK born and bred in Lancashire. I was diagnosed with autism and this makes social interaction quite difficult with others so my therapy woman named Molly told me to meet new people and here we are, but... honestly I think it is much easier for her because people just gather around her and she has had lots of boyfriends so I think its a bit patronizing for her to talk to me like a kid, she is always chatting to people like its nothing but for me its like Im a sad little puppy that nobody wants to pet or talk to but I guess I have that dog in me since Im still going strong despite all that ruffhousing

My mum forced me to get the old job I ever had which was working in a warehouse for shillings and there was a guy that would follow me and copy my words like a parrot but in a really high pitched annoying voice so I left because he was a lame creep with a dumb voice, I dont know why people are so weird and creepy nowadays! Am I the only one who sees it? Havent had any jobs since and good riddance!

Id love to know how you guys are dealing with not being in job employment or training. I hope Im not barking up the wrong tree. When I join discord its full of weird creeps that just want to be weird and misogynistic or they act really weird like one time I joined a neet server and there was this guy pretending to be a dog in voice chat but the woman was pretending to be his owner and I was losing my marbles at it because thats so weird but I also found it inspiring because its a subversive depiction of masculine will which is why I name myself ruff. I hope that I can one day I can shed my toxic masculinity like that guy and unleash my beastly nature. Im hoping you guys are pretty cool as the veterans of neethood maybe you can tell me some lifehacks so I can stop being a jobless loser

First of all I would like to build rapport with you, please complete my survey at your convenience
1. Are you a NEET?
2. What jobs have you had?
3. Do you arelso have autism?
4. What kind of tips would you give for a neet going through a ruff patch.

Yours truly,
ruff.

Hi Ruff, nice to meet you here.
For learning social skills through online platforms, I'd strongly advice against this forum. It's a nice place for people going through deep rut who want to vent and co-mmiserate with others about the issues in their lives but you will rarely find a deep discussion here. And not to be a debbie downer but this isn't the most friendly, hopeful community, you will find more positive optimistic threads even on the NEET Reddit.

For in person socialization, I reccomend joining a club or hobby or shared space and talking to as many people as possible without coming off as too desperate, and if you live in a socially open country talking to random people on the train as practice. That's sort of how I met many of the friends I am starting to make now. If you have social phobia like many here unfortunately Acceptance and Commitment Therapy is a good start, or even just regular CBT with exposure therapy. And generally trying to act opposite to your fears as often as possible, as far as sensible and safe of course.

For improving social skills online I strongly reccomend somehting like a mental health specific discord server where you will hopefully find less creeps. And something like that app Omegle that puts you on calls with random people and you can chat. If you play any multiplayer games I think those can be of great help as well.

As for college, if you do not have the cognitive aptitude for a highly demanding degree or even a basic bitch MBA I reccomend you look into the trades or something more hands on and vocational that isn't unskilled labor. If it's ADHD or work ethic or concentration that's keeping you from getting an education, I reccomend you take care of that first. You should take an IQ test to see whether the problem of education for you is innate and has to do with your natural aptitudes or if it is something you can solve by adressing any mental health issues you might have and not know. But if it's not that and the results aren't very good you should know that's completely okay and it does not make you a loser, it just means some people are more predisposed to certain problems in this world and unfortunately chronic unemployment is one of them. Not everyone is given the same mental aptitude to be able to graduate and do well in college, be kind to yourself, you can't force yourself to fit into a mold you're not built for but you can still work with what you're given. And also ADHD and some other conditions can skew the results of IQ tests.

1. I am *technically* a conservatory student, but because my country does not have a proper music education system or proper music higher education institutions like how the US has Julliard or Curtis it's a part time thing and I have not yet done the level assesment that makes you an ''official'' student. We don't even have a minimum skill requirement to enroll so technically anyone can walk into a local studio an call themselves a music student lmao. I tried a part time private college for a different course but absoloutely hated it and I am too damaged by my environment right now to be able to exert the effort neccecary to live independently. I am working on undoing the damage.
2. I did a gig once (unpaid) for a local cafe in my neighborhood where I did pretty well but a creepy old lady told me to pray to my guardian angel for protection before performing. Also, one time a person threw me 50 cents. That is the extent of my professional experience.
3. I have PDD-NOS, diagnosed in preschool. It's like subthreshold autism, it's often the lowest level you can have. I am now working at improving my social deficits and succeeding.
4. My advice for a NEET going through a rough patch is to completely abstain from any discretionary technologies for 18 months to 3 full years, with no excepion except from things neccecary live and work, and to focusn engaging with things in real life even if they're just hobbies and not things that will make them employable one day. Full abstinence from all vices, no exceptions, no loopholes, treating our chronic internet addicions like they're the devil and like we are sober alchoholics, until we are established as functional young adults. The more you interact with your well adjusted peers the more you get asked about youru work or your studies or whatever you're up to in life and the more you feel a need to start engaging with those things so you will not look bad to them.

I cope with being NEET with excessive internet consumption, intensive musical study on a good day, bizzare sexual fetishes, playign my guitar to relax, and delving into niche and esoteric religious and occult interests.

I also reccomend mindfulness treatment. Greetings, good luck!

 

[xxxdisturbedgamer20]

1. Yes
2. None
4. Yes, I am. How could you tell?
4. Hack and slash

 

[Skoga]

Sybau

 

[Deleted member 3561]

Hello everybody its so nice to meet you! I came to this forum because this is the first search result I got when typing in NEET forum
So a little bit of background about me I'm a 22 year old university dropout from the UK born and bred in Lancashire. I was diagnosed with autism and this makes social interaction quite difficult with others so my therapy woman named Molly told me to meet new people and here we are, but... honestly I think it is much easier for her because people just gather around her and she has had lots of boyfriends so I think its a bit patronizing for her to talk to me like a kid, she is always chatting to people like its nothing but for me its like Im a sad little puppy that nobody wants to pet or talk to but I guess I have that dog in me since Im still going strong despite all that ruffhousing

My mum forced me to get the old job I ever had which was working in a warehouse for shillings and there was a guy that would follow me and copy my words like a parrot but in a really high pitched annoying voice so I left because he was a lame creep with a dumb voice, I dont know why people are so weird and creepy nowadays! Am I the only one who sees it? Havent had any jobs since and good riddance!

Id love to know how you guys are dealing with not being in job employment or training. I hope Im not barking up the wrong tree. When I join discord its full of weird creeps that just want to be weird and misogynistic or they act really weird like one time I joined a neet server and there was this guy pretending to be a dog in voice chat but the woman was pretending to be his owner and I was losing my marbles at it because thats so weird but I also found it inspiring because its a subversive depiction of masculine will which is why I name myself ruff. I hope that I can one day I can shed my toxic masculinity like that guy and unleash my beastly nature. Im hoping you guys are pretty cool as the veterans of neethood maybe you can tell me some lifehacks so I can stop being a jobless loser

First of all I would like to build rapport with you, please complete my survey at your convenience
1. Are you a NEET?
2. What jobs have you had?
3. Do you arelso have autism?
4. What kind of tips would you give for a neet going through a ruff patch.

Yours truly,
ruff.

Your therapist has nice sense of dark humor

 

[OldAutEP]

1. Are you a NEET?
Sort of. No stable employment.

2. What jobs have you had?
The jobs that weren't state funded have exclusively been dealing with the care of
the elderly.
3. Do you also have autism?
Yes.
4. What kind of tips would you give for a neet going through a ruff patch.
See to that you on average get in 30 minutes of walking or other cardio a day or 150 minutes a week. Set a target. Staves off depression and keeps energy up and stops you from acquiring lots of aches in your body.

 

[xxxdisturbedgamer20]

3. Do you also have autism?
Yes.

you honestly don't have to tell us.

 

[MelaninQueen]

No, I'm neurotypical. Thanks for asking, however.