Discussion Hello, why is my mother ignoring me all of sudden?

MelaninQueen

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We had an atgument last night. İn fact, İ was the one who started first. My lack of sleep contributed to my anger.

Fast forward to this morning, my mother is ignoring me. She's not saying anything. So I wonder, how do I make her come into good terms with me?
 
MelaninQueen

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give her time and space. after some time, bring her a hot beverage and tell you are sorry and didnt mean it.
I never brought any drinks to her, so I think she would find it weird.
 
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give her time and space. after some time, bring her a hot beverage and tell you are sorry and didnt mean it.
How much space and time should İ give to her? Approximately, how many weejs or months? I live in the same house and it's thr only person I hold social interactions with.
 
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How much space and time should İ give to her? Approximately, how many weejs or months? I live in the same house and it's thr only person I hold social interactions with.
one day max if you live in the same house and if it was just a verbal argument. If you have never brought her drinks, it might be better i think. It shows how sad you are about what happened.
 
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one day max if you live in the same house and if it was just a verbal argument. If you have never brought her drinks, it might be better i think. It shows how sad you are about what happened.
what if i decide to apologize this afternoon? You know, it wasn't my intention to insult her and become hysterical myself. I struggle a lot with my thoughts during night, although I managed to sleep fine last night (thankfully, except my sleep is broken after 3/4 hours). If İ had 0 health problems, I would be totally fine. Trust me.
 
MelaninQueen

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why not? go ahead and try to be sincere
How do I apologize? Anything thqt doesn't involve preparing a beverage, since she prepares the tea herself.
 
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How do I apologize? Anything thqt doesn't involve preparing a beverage, since she prepares the tea herself.
tell her you are sorry for last night and you didnt mean it. you dont have to gift her anything. maybe a hug if she seems calm? I dont know your relationship with your mom. you have to figure it out some details. plan is to apologize and owning up your mistake, the rest is on you.
 
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tell her you are sorry for last night and you didnt mean it. you dont have to gift her anything. maybe a hug if she seems calm? I dont know your relationship with your mom. you have to figure it out some details. plan is to apologize and owning up your mistake, the rest is on you.
Hello, she is still ignoring me. What should I do?
 
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MelaninQueen

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give her time. show that you are sad and you regret what you did with your actions. you could look sad, try to do a house chore etc.

idk what else.
She's still ignoring me. IDK what to do.
 
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She's still ignoring me. IDK what to do.
while you wait for her to cooldown, SHOW her you still care and love her, like doing the chores, smiling at her, or whatever. ive been there, and it feels like crap, i know, but you gotta show her that you are truly sorry by doing better, then after you feel she's gotten less avoidant, then tell her you love her and that you are deeply sorry
 
MelaninQueen

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while you wait for her to cooldown, SHOW her you still care and love her, like doing the chores, smiling at her, or whatever. ive been there, and it feels like crap, i know, but you gotta show her that you are truly sorry by doing better, then after you feel she's gotten less avoidant, then tell her you love her and that you are deeply sorry
She's been cooling down for almost 24 hours. How long do I have to wait until I confront her? Tonight? Tomororw?
 
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She's been cooling down for almost 24 hours. How long do I have to wait until I confront her? Tonight? Tomororw?
if you argued at night, then it's best to do it tomorrow, since maybe sleepiness would affect either or both of your judgements. try to smile at her first in the morning, bro
 
MelaninQueen

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oh

then give it a shot, OP, or wait for it to cooldown, when you two are naturally in the same room. also, show off that you can help around the house too
Hello, my mother came back from hospital and she still ignores me. She didn't say a thing, she didn't come see me at my computer room. What should I do?
 
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Hello, my mother came back from hospital and she still ignores me. She didn't say a thing, she didn't come see me at my computer room. What should I do?
this type of stuff lasts like a month, bro. i dont know what to say, but three days is usually the max. just help around the house and keep smiling, til the waters get less hot from your previous fight.

have you said sorry at least?
 
MelaninQueen

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this type of stuff lasts like a month, bro. i dont know what to say, but three days is usually the max. just help around the house and keep smiling, til the waters get less hot from your previous fight.

have you said sorry at least?
İt's almost afternoon and my mother didn't come to my bedroom. I think she doesn't give q fuck ahout me anymore. She's not cooking for me, etc.
 
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İt's almost afternoon and my mother didn't come to my bedroom. I think she doesn't give q fuck ahout me anymore. She's not cooking for me, etc.
shit, nigga. i dont know what to say, but i guess the best thing you could do is show that at least you still cared. do you have other family members?
 
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