How do I make this foid my gf?

[Deleted member 2481]

I met her through my friends.

Basically to keep the story short enough, we met up a few times as a friend group. Sometimes she grabs my hand or shoulder when we're walking and talking.

We were smoking yesterday at a bar and this woman came up and asked us if we're boyfriend and girlfriend. I said "no, she's my friend's roommate" and she called me a pussy for not doing anything. Then the girl said "I know right? I love this man and he won't do anything". She was drunk so idk how truthful she was, maybe she was just being playful.

Anyway, we got back home, the other guys went to sleep and we hung out for a bit together, nothing sexual. As I was leaving I told her i'd like to hang out with her and my delivery was really autistic so I think she might've gotten the ick. Idk.

What can I do? Should I go for it? I feel like if I try and she rejects me it will really fuck up the dynamic of the group and make it super awkward, but at the same time I like her and i'd like to see what can come out of this. Should I squeeze my balls and ask her to hang out? Try anything more than talking? or should I not shit where I eat? What can I do? I need serious help.

 

[MelaninQueen]

I said "no, she's my friend's roommate"

Oops. She was right.

 

[Deleted member 2481]

Oops.

huh? That's what she is.

 

[MelaninQueen]

If you're a bit awkward as some people in here, it wouldn't surprise me and I can't blame you for such silly mistake.

 

[MelaninQueen]

huh? That's what she is.

... you clearly don't get it.

 

[MelaninQueen]

Should I squeeze my balls and ask her to hang out?

Just ask her out for a date. "Hey, can I take you out for a drink?" I don't know how do you guys plan dates on the UK but just ask her out. It only takes a few keystrokes.

 

[Deleted member 3340]

Find somewhere you think is interesting and tzll her to hang out there only two of you
Maybe something she likes
What does she likes?

 

[MelaninQueen]

... you clearly don't get it.

You had to pretend to be her boyfriend (protection).

 

[Deleted member 2481]

Find somewhere you think is interesting and tzll her to hang out there only two of you
Maybe something she likes
What does she likes?

idk, i've only known her for like a month and I only saw her like 3 or 4 times. I know she likes some of the same shows on goyflix that I do. That's about it. She seems fun and nice though. I really like her I think.

You had to pretend to be her boyfriend (protection).

It was a woman lol, not a dude.

 

[MelaninQueen]

ick

Those icks you Anglosaxons always talk about are just for unattractive guys. If she's really attracted to you, maybe it's worth a shot asking her out for a date. Women can grow attraction for someone due to familiarity (over time). It has happened to me before, and I've missed a couple of opportunities during school due to inaction from my part.

 

[MelaninQueen]

Did you know I was with a girl once on her bed and she was stroking my head with her hand, running her hand through my hair and I did absolutely nothing until she accompanied me back to the train station later in that day (like in a movie)?

 

[Deleted member 2481]

Did you know I was with a girl once on her bed and she was stroking my head with her hand, running her hand through my hair and I did absolutely nothing until she accompanied me back to the train station later in that day (like in a movie)?

why didn't you? A girl rubbed my chest in a hotel room once. That's the only time I was ever in bed with one without paying.

 

[MelaninQueen]

why didn't you? A girl rubbed my chest in a hotel room once. That's the only time I was ever in bed with one without paying.

You have always sounded neurodivergent to me. I am ND too. Maybe you're an actual high functioning autistic person. At least you have some friends left at your age. I fucked it up and I've moved places, so no friends here in this new town and I'm completely on my own (thankfully I still have my parents around).

 

[Deleted member 3340]

i've only known her for like a month and I only saw her like 3 or 4 times. I know she likes some of the same shows on goyflix that I do. That's about it. She seems fun and nice though. I really like her I think.

Damn
Feel like thats not enough
I thought you probably had her for like some couple months
Make a joke about you two going in a date or together and see how she responds

 

[Deleted member 2481]

Damn
Feel like thats not enough
I thought you probably had her for like some couple months
Make a joke about you two going in a date or together and see how she responds

well surely the quicker the better to ask her out, right? After a few months you just become friends and then that makes it awkward.

 

[Deleted member 3340]

well surely the quicker the better to ask her out, right? After a few months you just become friends and then that makes it awkward.

Yeah youre right.
I honestly dont know how to answer these questions since i never had this close relationship to a double X creautre

 

[HagiQafir]

You should steal her kidneys, trust.

 

[Bitter]

I can't advise you on anything because I've never been in the same situation as you. I've rarely experienced being within a social circle, and even fewer have had the opportunity to experience anything like close enough interaction with a woman. I don't think I've experienced socializing with young women since high school. Anyway, good luck.