How many other people live like this? She shame of drifting on neetbuxx in my parents house is crushing me

[Trees]

'm 25 years old and I live at home, and I'm autistic and extremely mentally ill and I can't work because I have severe panic disorder and mood swings, and people especially women often find me weird and creepy because of how my face looks combined with uncontrollable autistic mannerisms, so for that reason I've ended up on disability and I'm just a full time 100% NEET now, so I just basically exist, I go to the gym most days because it's literally my only reason to leave the house

My mum doesn't even bother waking me up to get out of bed anymore she just lets me sleep in and I feel so fucking embarrassed because of that, knowing that during 7am when I finally manage to fall asleep because my insomnia is so severe, everyone else is waking up for work, college or school or whatever, and I'm just doing nothing but scrolling on my phone all day, gaming is no longer fun because my dopamine is so burnt out, for some reason having a mum who just doesn't even really care that I'm a NEET feels so embarrassing and shameful, because literally ANY other parent would force their son to get a job or even kick them out for freeloading, but because my mum is so acutely aware of just how fucked up and how fucking beyond mentally disturbed I am, she just doesn't even talk to me about getting a job anymore and even discourages it sometimes

I just hope I'm not the only guy in the UK my age who lives like this, I feel so fucking pathetic, seeing everyone else at the gym knowing they've returned from work or school and knowing I'm likely the only lifeless jobless NEET piece of shit in there, it's fucking awful, the shame is seriously unparalleled

Is there anyone else here who lives like this? Just drifting on NEETbuxx in their mums house?

 

[Riddler]

Nah bro you and @uglyboi1 are basically the same nigga

 

[General Alek]

same

except I don't feel embarrassed

society should feel embarrassed for being so pathetic

 

[Pale God]

tl;dr

 

[Pale God]

Learn to write properly. This is unreadable. Punctuation and some decent sentence structure.

 

[Trees]

Learn to write properly. This is unreadable. Punctuation and some decent sentence structure.

Can you tell me exactly what's wrong about it? I thought it was just normal

 

[Pale God]

Commas instead of dots. More paragraphs would help a lot to. You could get to the point faster aswell for it not to be such a boring read.

 

[hikikomori]

I live like this as well and I love it

my preferred lifestyle 100%

 

[Trees]

I live like this as well and I love it

my preferred lifestyle 100%

How do you deal with the shame of having parents who just allow it, how old are you?

 

[hikikomori]

How do you deal with the shame of having parents who just allow it, how old are you?

‘i am 23

i feel no shame at all

i don’t want kids or a gf

im not interested in marriage either

 

[RNT]

I feel so fucking pathetic, seeing everyone else at the gym knowing they've returned from work or school and knowing I'm likely the only lifeless jobless NEET piece of shit in there, it's fucking awful, the shame is seriously unparalleled

You want to fit in and we want to get out...

There has been statistics posted again and again that 70% to 80% of adult autists are not employed.

And when they are employed, they manage to enrage even schizophrenics:

my expierence working with autistic person at warehouse wagie job

I work a chill warehouse job that mostly involves moving boxes of stuff from shelf a to shelf b while listening to trance music and joe rogan. One day I get a new seasonal coworker for the same job as me. He seemed normie when i first met him, kinda nerdy white forest phenotype. Germanicish...

neets.net

Your situation is not unique and your "reference group" is not NEETs, but (largely unemployed) autists. From what I have seen, these forums for autists exist and thrive.

Can you tell me exactly what's wrong about it? I thought it was just normal

There's nothing wrong with it, the guy is German and tries to enforce Ordnung.

 

[Pale God]

You want to fit in and we want to get out...

There has been statistics posted again and again that 70% to 80% of adult autists are not employed.

And when they are employed, they manage to enrage even schizophrenics:

my expierence working with autistic person at warehouse wagie job

I work a chill warehouse job that mostly involves moving boxes of stuff from shelf a to shelf b while listening to trance music and joe rogan. One day I get a new seasonal coworker for the same job as me. He seemed normie when i first met him, kinda nerdy white forest phenotype. Germanicish...

neets.net

Your situation is not unique and your "reference group" is not NEETs, but (largely unemployed) autists. From what I have seen, these forums for autists exist and thrive.


There's nothing wrong with it, the guy is German and tries to enforce Ordnung.

It's just poorly written. Any English teacher would confirm that.

 

[uglyboi1]

Nah bro you and @uglyboi1 are basically the same nigga

He can go to gym and doesn't have hand atrophy or chronic pain mogs me.

 

[uglyboi1]

'm 25 years old and I live at home, and I'm autistic and extremely mentally ill and I can't work because I have severe panic disorder and mood swings, and people especially women often find me weird and creepy because of how my face looks combined with uncontrollable autistic mannerisms, so for that reason I've ended up on disability and I'm just a full time 100% NEET now, so I just basically exist, I go to the gym most days because it's literally my only reason to leave the house

My mum doesn't even bother waking me up to get out of bed anymore she just lets me sleep in and I feel so fucking embarrassed because of that, knowing that during 7am when I finally manage to fall asleep because my insomnia is so severe, everyone else is waking up for work, college or school or whatever, and I'm just doing nothing but scrolling on my phone all day, gaming is no longer fun because my dopamine is so burnt out, for some reason having a mum who just doesn't even really care that I'm a NEET feels so embarrassing and shameful, because literally ANY other parent would force their son to get a job or even kick them out for freeloading, but because my mum is so acutely aware of just how fucked up and how fucking beyond mentally disturbed I am, she just doesn't even talk to me about getting a job anymore and even discourages it sometimes

I just hope I'm not the only guy in the UK my age who lives like this, I feel so fucking pathetic, seeing everyone else at the gym knowing they've returned from work or school and knowing I'm likely the only lifeless jobless NEET piece of shit in there, it's fucking awful, the shame is seriously unparalleled

Is there anyone else here who lives like this? Just drifting on NEETbuxx in their mums house?

Are you on PIP or LCWRA?

 

[λ-calculus]

I envy you, there is no NEETBUCKS on my third world shithole.

 

[poorcel]

Me too but without the gym part

 

[ShoelessSperg]

'm 25 years old and I live at home, and I'm autistic and extremely mentally ill and I can't work because I have severe panic disorder and mood swings, and people especially women often find me weird and creepy because of how my face looks combined with uncontrollable autistic mannerisms, so for that reason I've ended up on disability and I'm just a full time 100% NEET now, so I just basically exist, I go to the gym most days because it's literally my only reason to leave the house

My mum doesn't even bother waking me up to get out of bed anymore she just lets me sleep in and I feel so fucking embarrassed because of that, knowing that during 7am when I finally manage to fall asleep because my insomnia is so severe, everyone else is waking up for work, college or school or whatever, and I'm just doing nothing but scrolling on my phone all day, gaming is no longer fun because my dopamine is so burnt out, for some reason having a mum who just doesn't even really care that I'm a NEET feels so embarrassing and shameful, because literally ANY other parent would force their son to get a job or even kick them out for freeloading, but because my mum is so acutely aware of just how fucked up and how fucking beyond mentally disturbed I am, she just doesn't even talk to me about getting a job anymore and even discourages it sometimes

I just hope I'm not the only guy in the UK my age who lives like this, I feel so fucking pathetic, seeing everyone else at the gym knowing they've returned from work or school and knowing I'm likely the only lifeless jobless NEET piece of shit in there, it's fucking awful, the shame is seriously unparalleled

Is there anyone else here who lives like this? Just drifting on NEETbuxx in their mums house?

Basically me but moved out get hobbies that’s all you can do

 

[Sephiroth]

Yes, I live like this. I don't wake up to mommy though. I can't do anything like work for a salary because glowies will always make me lose my job. At this point, I don't think anyone will hire me. I am somewhat smart. Maybe I'm a little above average so it makes this lifestyle somewhat enjoyable as long as I keep NEETBUX. I won't ever get a girlfriend with this salary and life. Which is the only thing that bothers me. Having a girlfriend would make me a lot more happier personally.

 

[mirandalad]

Everyone around me calls me a child and a retard because i am a 37 year old who still lives with his mom

i am thinking of becoming homeless so i don't have to deal with this abuse. i want to completely separate from my family and not see them ever again

 

[CelticKHV]

What does society expect me to do when they bully me out of jobs anyway? Maybe if they would stop gossiping about me at jobs then I would feel content and stay at one.

 

[NekoStance]

Hmm, are you on any medications?

 

[OldAutEP]

I have done it. It is usually a symptom of your mother trying to turn you into her little boyfriend.
You are the victim of a devouring mother.