Discussion I am a covert narcassist

[frightfulcel]

I think many incels are to be honest. It means I get super angry at any injustices I percieve, think myself morally superior to others, will bring up stuff that happened in the past for an emotional response from the other person. The whole process is unconcious though. It would be ok if I was a Chad or Stacy and could back it up however since I'm not it just means I rage a lot. I am working on it however the whole victim mentality is hard to break out of. Its sort of something you have to realize and put up with given theres no cure or anything. Covert narcassists like myself are generally more aware of being one.

I believe many SJW's are narcassistic as they portray similar traits e.g virute signalling about racism while being extremely racist etc.

 

[uglyboi1]

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I think many incels are to be honest. It means I get super angry at any injustices I percieve, think myself morally superior to others, will bring up stuff that happened in the past for an emotional response from the other person. The whole process is unconcious though. It would be ok if I was a Chad or Stacy and could back it up however since I'm not it just means I rage a lot. I am working on it however the whole victim mentality is hard to break out of. Its sort of something you have to realize and put up with given theres no cure or anything. Covert narcassists like myself are generally more aware of being one.

I believe many SJW's are narcassistic as they portray similar traits e.g virute signalling about racism while being extremely racist etc.

The underlying theme of narcissism is grandiosity, something that most incels lack. They are just upset that they got dealt a shit hand and react a little worse than the average person. Definitely not enough to be considered a total narcissist imo

 

[Unemployed]

It means I get super angry at any injustices I percieve, think myself morally superior to others, will bring up stuff that happened in the past for an emotional response from the other person.

Thank you for this confession.

I will now ignore you for the foreseeable future.

 

[Riddler]

What people miss is narcissism is self absorption. As David foster Wallace put it, there's alot of narcissism in self loathing

What actual ego death and abnegation of self looks like, is what you see in monks and the ilk. Literal selflessness. It actually brings one at peace

Resentment and anger, the defining incel traits stem indignation. "I deserve more"

It's a mixed bag but yes, there's a good bit of what you describe in inkler culture

 

[Brother Wagecuck]

I think I may know a few in my personal life.

 

[404Errorcel]

Its just bs therapy labeling.

 

[frightfulcel]

The underlying theme of narcissism is grandiosity, something that most incels lack. They are just upset that they got dealt a shit hand and react a little worse than the average person. Definitely not enough to be considered a total narcissist imo

Even being a victim can be a form of grandiosity, or being more humble etc.

What people miss is narcissism is self absorption. As David foster Wallace put it, there's alot of narcissism in self loathing

What actual ego death and abnegation of self looks like, is what you see in monks and the ilk. Literal selflessness. It actually brings one at peace

Resentment and anger, the defining incel traits stem indignation. "I deserve more"

It's a mixed bag but yes, there's a good bit of what you describe in inkler culture

Interesting, thanks for sharing

I think I may know a few in my personal life.

Yeah its like 8% of the population

Its just bs therapy labeling.

I know phycology is bullshit but upon looking into it its sort of 50% truth mixed with 50% lies to further their agenda

 

[Thadman]

The vast bulk of people are somewhat narcissistic or sociopathic, society has an inherent obsession with labelling others as sociopaths or narcissists because they are projecting their own traits onto others. Dont tell us that you havent blatantly lied to get out of trouble, needlessly judged or talked shit about others, played fake to manipulate others for your own benefit or lacked empathy and remorse for the downtrodden. Accepting the fact that you have sociopath traits is the first step to recovery

 

[frightfulcel]

The vast bulk of people are somewhat narcissistic or sociopathic, society has an inherent obsession with labelling others as sociopaths or narcissists because they are projecting their own traits onto others. Dont tell us that you havent blatantly lied to get out of trouble, needlessly judged or talked shit about others, played fake to manipulate others for your own benefit or lacked empathy and remorse for the downtrodden. Accepting the fact that you have sociopath traits is the first step to recovery

I think its a spectrum, I just feel negative emotions like envy stronger than average

 

[Thadman]

I think its a spectrum, I just feel negative emotions like envy stronger than average

Which is pretty normal, everyone has some unique negative personality trait or flaw