λ-calculus
Documenting my journey to the sewer
- Oct 24, 2023
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Don't get me wrong, looks, height, dick size, all very important factors and not having them will negatively affect your dating life. But to claim personality doesn't matter is ridiculous and so far away from reality, no wonder no one takes the blackpill seriously outside of blackpill forums. A little anecdote from back when I was a kid/teenager. My parents used to force me to go to English classes on Saturdays, I attended those classes for several years and not once did I ever talk to any of my classmates, I was always the quiet shy type that never said anything to anyone. However there was one classmate that was the polar opposite, he was extremely social and charming, everyone wanted to be around him, he even tried talking to me multiple times and even gave me a nickname, but I was too shy to ever reciprocate. He wasn't very attractive physically speaking though, he was fat and I would say he was on my level lookswise, and yet all the girls in class wanted to be around him, he basically had a harem of girl hanging out with him every time we went on a break. Every time we had group activities, a bunch of girls would pair up with him, meanwhile I had to wait for everyone to form their groups and join whatever group was missing someone.
Charming personalities like his, that make everyone want to be around you, are rare, but they do give you the opportunity to get girls even when you don't look so good. Unfortunately, changing your personality is about as difficult as changing your looks, pretty much impossible. For this reason, I think the blackpill should be about how little you can actually change once you're an adult. It should be about genetic and upbringing determinism and how little control you have over your life and relationships. It should not be about how your looks are the only thing that matters, even if looks are the most important thing when it comes to dating. I will never be like him, I will never be the center of attention that everyone wants a piece of, because I don't have that personality, I am the shy retard who doesn't talk, I don't think I can change that and this point I don't even think I want it to change, I've grown so used to it by now. That's all I have to say.
Charming personalities like his, that make everyone want to be around you, are rare, but they do give you the opportunity to get girls even when you don't look so good. Unfortunately, changing your personality is about as difficult as changing your looks, pretty much impossible. For this reason, I think the blackpill should be about how little you can actually change once you're an adult. It should be about genetic and upbringing determinism and how little control you have over your life and relationships. It should not be about how your looks are the only thing that matters, even if looks are the most important thing when it comes to dating. I will never be like him, I will never be the center of attention that everyone wants a piece of, because I don't have that personality, I am the shy retard who doesn't talk, I don't think I can change that and this point I don't even think I want it to change, I've grown so used to it by now. That's all I have to say.
