Gaku
God Of Super Auto Pets
- Sep 29, 2022
- 606
So lately I started getting some beautiful female friends and I'm not very social.
So let me explain, I changed my mindset; the mindset I had before was that of a lustful animal and that influence my behavior a lot, so instead of fantasizing about them and trying to get wit them by asking for pictures, dates and forcing them to see me as a sexual partner I started genuinely talking and getting to know them without anything romantic coming to mind. I know you guys might say I'm comfortable being in the friend
zone... that's not it, I just started realizing that having female friends doesn't have to end in HAVING SEX. Yes I said it, so think of them as a male friend... they also need someone to talk to and share what happened in their day, someone to yap with and someone that really care and doesn't push them to send nude pics, invite on dates and make sexual advances.
I may be completely wrong but when you have ulterior motives I think they can sense that and that's obviously a big turnoff ... Likewise I think they can sense when youre genuine. I got like three beautiful female friends, and no I don't have their numbers. That's another thing too; if you ask them for their number it's a complete turn off because they'll assume you're like all the other guys trying to get with them. Just genuinely care, don't ask for their numbers and don't ever make any advances!
So let me explain, I changed my mindset; the mindset I had before was that of a lustful animal and that influence my behavior a lot, so instead of fantasizing about them and trying to get wit them by asking for pictures, dates and forcing them to see me as a sexual partner I started genuinely talking and getting to know them without anything romantic coming to mind. I know you guys might say I'm comfortable being in the friend
zone... that's not it, I just started realizing that having female friends doesn't have to end in HAVING SEX. Yes I said it, so think of them as a male friend... they also need someone to talk to and share what happened in their day, someone to yap with and someone that really care and doesn't push them to send nude pics, invite on dates and make sexual advances.
I may be completely wrong but when you have ulterior motives I think they can sense that and that's obviously a big turnoff ... Likewise I think they can sense when youre genuine. I got like three beautiful female friends, and no I don't have their numbers. That's another thing too; if you ask them for their number it's a complete turn off because they'll assume you're like all the other guys trying to get with them. Just genuinely care, don't ask for their numbers and don't ever make any advances!
