Discussion I think incels need a new space

[frightfulcel]

Inceldom is unique from person to person. I think the whole stalanistic approach of .is is sort of ridiculous. If someone got laid when they were 19 but are 30 now and haven't gotten laid since, isn't there a statue of limitations? I think attacking an individual like this over something that happened once is a bit stupid. Its more envy than objectivity. A poor person who lives a luxary life for a couple of days once in their life isn't suddenly and better off.

A incel forum thats more open minded and focused on talking about inceldom instead of edgelord stuff would be better than the forum we have. It would unironically get rid of a lot of fakecels given they can't relate. What do you guys think?

 

[Tisserand]

Ah yes, creating another incel forum to divide the community even more

 

[frightfulcel]

Ah yes, creating another incel forum to divide the community even more

Incels will never be really be united or a community, I just want a place that talks about inceldom without the whole edgelord and purity spiralling aspect.

 

[Thadman]

Who cares, you'll find incels everywhere even in real life.

 

[frightfulcel]

Who cares, you'll find incels everywhere even in real life.

Yes, but theres nowhere dediccated to talking about it objectivly. We have nowhere to really voice the issue on the internet.

 

[General Alek]

Ah yes, creating another incel forum to divide the community even more

the old forum has gone to shit

 

[General Alek]

the old forum has gone to shit

its ruled by a clique of high school normie types

and the mods are like the teachers that cow-tow to them

 

[frightfulcel]

its ruled by a clique of high school normie types

and the mods are like the teachers that cow-tow to them

The only reason the high school normie types are there is because of all the edgelord stuff, if that was removed they would get bored extremely quickly. Make it more about inceldom and less about being popular on discord and an iconic user.

 

[General Alek]

The only reason the high school normie types are there is because of all the edgelord stuff, if that was removed they would get bored extremely quickly. Make it more about inceldom and less about being popular on discord and an iconic user.

they always accused me of trying to be edgy

but I was always being genuine

 

[General Alek]

there is a new space

but I can't link it

Givey is watching

 

[frightfulcel]

they always accused me of trying to be edgy

but I was always being genuine

In their mind you are putting on a persona like them, countless autists have been banned due to normie witchhunts. .Is is no different to real life. And the ironic thing is that these normies claim to be incels attacking fakecels jfl.

 

[NeverBegan]

Its more envy than objectivity. A poor person who lives a luxary life for a couple of days once in their life isn't suddenly and better off.

I'd even argue that this perspective is even worse. cuz knowing how much you could've been better off by first hand experience, such as being rich for a very limited time and then being poor forever or knowing how good food tastes like when being stuck in the desert forever, is a reality and desillusion you can only hardly feel when never having experienced such.

 

[MelaninQueen]

Ah yes, creating another incel forum to divide the community even more

How is it dividing? incels.is moderation board are the ones to blame.

 

[frightfulcel]

I'd even argue that this perspective is even worse. cuz knowing how much you could've been better off by first hand experience, such as being rich for a very limited time and then being poor forever or knowing how good food tastes like when being stuck in the desert forever, is a reality and desillusion you can only hardly feel when never having experienced such.

Incels have access to hookers, porn, sex toys etc, its not like they are desert dwellers in this scenario, not that I'm a huge fan of those options. If they want to "try it out" its there.

The infighting over whos the biggest victim is extremely immature though. Makes us look like edgy teenagers, but then again most of the community is jfl

 

[Riddler]

You just aren't gonna find a healthy incel community because the types of people drawn to self ID as incel are by definition nutjobs

You will not find anyone who's a decent guy who just happened to find himself here. Those are few and far between and you have to navigate a sea of insufferables to get there as @RNT Put it, a nation within a nation

 

[NeverBegan]

Incels have access to hookers, porn, sex toys etc, its not like they are desert dwellers in this scenario, not that I'm a huge fan of those options. If they want to "try it out" its there.

Ofc incels have access to hookers, porn, sex toys and all the other things artificially satisfying one's needs but I think most incels want more than just that; we say its about sex per se but we're more referring to the pleasure you get when someone actually likes you, when they value you and want to share an intimate experience with you, voluntarily...

They dont want to pay for temporary attraction given to them, they want to feel the entirety of an intense loving relation to a woman, they want that she feels aroused and satisfied with his presense, all with her free will independent from external factors, such as wealth. it is all about genuine attraction, genuine affection, genuine wellbeing resulted by one's presence, not about the fake moans of a prostitute or something like that.

it is truly over for some of us...

The infighting over whos the biggest victim is extremely immature though. Makes us look like edgy teenagers, but then again most of the community is jfl

true and true

 

[frightfulcel]

Ofc incels have access to hookers, porn, sex toys and all the other things artificially satisfying one's needs but I think most incels want more than just that; we say its about sex per se but we're more referring to the pleasure you get when someone actually likes you, when they value you and want to share an intimate experience with you, voluntarily...

They dont want to pay for temporary attraction given to them, they want to feel the entirety of an intense loving relation to a woman, they want that she feels aroused and satisfied with his presense, all with her free will independent from external factors, such as wealth. it is all about genuine attraction, genuine affection, genuine wellbeing resulted by one's presence, not about the fake moans of a prostitute or something like that.

it is truly over for some of us...

true and true

My issue with this is that incels are generally blackpilled, therefore why would they care about relationships given what they know. Its like an atheist who wants to feel gods love again, or someone who doesn't believe in the tooth fairy being depressed that the tooth fairy doesn't exist. I mean some men do get genuine love, but its a small subset of men who are attractive. For most men its transactional.

I think incels just need to admit that they crave female validation, and that their whole persona is just a sour grapes coping persona. Its no wonder that most of them drop it if they ascend, given they never believed in it anyway.

 

[frightfulcel]

You just aren't gonna find a healthy incel community because the types of people drawn to self ID as incel are by definition nutjobs

You will not find anyone who's a decent guy who just happened to find himself here. Those are few and far between and you have to navigate a sea of insufferables to get there as @RNT Put it, a nation within a nation

I think people who are higher in conscientiousness wouldn't sign up to an incel space in the first place. I think that leaves a crazy subset of people.