anon1822movie
NEET
- Oct 9, 2022
- 70
When I imagine marriage, or any long-term relationship, I can never imagine a happy man, no matter how hard I try. After a year or two, inevitably I see the woman becoming less affectionate, more demanding, colder, more calculated with how she shows love, how much and how often she shows affection. Marriage basically becomes a second job for the man. And if on top of your full-time job, you cater to all her whims and wants and demands, then you can be rewarded with some affection. Not to mention all the mind games and arguments and emotional torment.
But living without a woman in your life is just as painful (unless you're a Chad who can get pussy every few months, or just hop from one relationship to another when you don't feel like being single). So I can only see one way for the non-Chad man to live without being totally miserable.
Kids. Not one. Not two. Perhaps not even three would be enough. Four kids is when the lifestyle becomes good for the man.
It's more work, it's much harder. But guess what? Having so many kids completely transforms both of your lives. That's it, she's the woman who you have 4 kids with, and you're her man. Your lives are forever intertwined, even more so than people with one or two kids. You're basically inseparable, you'll remain fond of each other and affectionate no matter what, because you're in this together for a long time, there's no way out for her nor you. Love will remain, because it has to, otherwise you'd both go crazy with the amount of work that goes into raising 4 kids. Your love and affection would be necessary, as a way to make this family life pleasant. She wouldn't be able to be overly cold or shrill, she needs you, you need each other. You're both soldiers in the war of life.
It might sound a bit manipulative, like you're keeping her hostage with 4 kids. But I see it as something ... pure, genuine, beautiful. It's a family, like it's truly supposed to be. None of the bullshit family dynamics of modern times. Just a man, and a woman, their big family and zero chance of divorce. No manipulations or schemes or games, you're both two poor parents trying to make ends meet. Your love and hard work is the only thing you two have.
Ahh, why am I torturing myself with these scenarios? I can't so much as get a single woman to go out on a date with me, after months of trying. After months of hard work, motivated by extreme horniness and yearning for affection, to the point I tried super creative methods of getting laid and it still didn't work. Fuck, I can't even see myself getting a woman even in 5 years or more. My life has no future in this country, but then again in another country I'd just be some low-skilled worker shmuck autist loser working for almost minimum wage paycheck to paycheck. What German on American girl would even look at a poor ugly loser like me? Fucked if I stay, fucked if I emigrate. Or rather not fucked, to be precise.
But living without a woman in your life is just as painful (unless you're a Chad who can get pussy every few months, or just hop from one relationship to another when you don't feel like being single). So I can only see one way for the non-Chad man to live without being totally miserable.
Kids. Not one. Not two. Perhaps not even three would be enough. Four kids is when the lifestyle becomes good for the man.
It's more work, it's much harder. But guess what? Having so many kids completely transforms both of your lives. That's it, she's the woman who you have 4 kids with, and you're her man. Your lives are forever intertwined, even more so than people with one or two kids. You're basically inseparable, you'll remain fond of each other and affectionate no matter what, because you're in this together for a long time, there's no way out for her nor you. Love will remain, because it has to, otherwise you'd both go crazy with the amount of work that goes into raising 4 kids. Your love and affection would be necessary, as a way to make this family life pleasant. She wouldn't be able to be overly cold or shrill, she needs you, you need each other. You're both soldiers in the war of life.
It might sound a bit manipulative, like you're keeping her hostage with 4 kids. But I see it as something ... pure, genuine, beautiful. It's a family, like it's truly supposed to be. None of the bullshit family dynamics of modern times. Just a man, and a woman, their big family and zero chance of divorce. No manipulations or schemes or games, you're both two poor parents trying to make ends meet. Your love and hard work is the only thing you two have.
Ahh, why am I torturing myself with these scenarios? I can't so much as get a single woman to go out on a date with me, after months of trying. After months of hard work, motivated by extreme horniness and yearning for affection, to the point I tried super creative methods of getting laid and it still didn't work. Fuck, I can't even see myself getting a woman even in 5 years or more. My life has no future in this country, but then again in another country I'd just be some low-skilled worker shmuck autist loser working for almost minimum wage paycheck to paycheck. What German on American girl would even look at a poor ugly loser like me? Fucked if I stay, fucked if I emigrate. Or rather not fucked, to be precise.
