Discussion I’m not a very charismatic person

[Tabula Rasa]

i see and observe people.. (even people on the internet), it’s kinda weird to me how humans interact with each other, its the personality or behaviour that i’m not really accustomed to, so.. the title is, im not very charismatic and i think i prefer being on the sidelines and being an observer rather than just doing human social things. why am I on this forum then? for personal enjoyment, I guess. internet is my entertainment and i guess ill just keep reading things, making my own comments and thoughts but always being an observer rather than interact with others… just keeping a far distance. i just prefer doing things on my own and keeping to myself. so why make this thread? for validation? well, i’m bored and i think i want to write this and express my thoughts and observations ina stream of conscious kind of way. i’m going to die soon anyway. it’s all kind of weird. (life, existence) i’m weird.

 

[Tabula Rasa]

i just hang out here, hello.. lol

 

[Based Vampire]

I'm shy and not very well-spoken

 

[ElishaLord]

I would be fine with talking to a friend once or twice a month but with friendships and social circles you always need to entertain them and maintain your position by having charisma, I just can't do it I don't know how do people never run out of things to say or to do

so why make this thread? for validation? well, i’m bored and i think i want to write this and express my thoughts and observations ina stream of conscious kind of way

It's why I wish to be rich and famous so I would be in a position of power and always have people to talk to when needed but I wouldn't really need to maintain these relationships they would just be NPCs I vent to and receive feedback from.. But I don't have the charisma to achieve that so whatever

 

[Tabula Rasa]

I would be fine with talking to a friend once or twice a month but with friendships and social circles you always need to entertain them and maintain your position by having charisma, I just can't do it I don't know how do people never run out of things to say or to do

It's why I wish to be rich and famous so I would be in a position of power and always have people to talk to when needed but I wouldn't really need to maintain these relationships they would just be NPCs I vent to and receive feedback from.. But I don't have the charisma to achieve that so whatever

yes I wish everybody would shut up

 

[micropenis29]

I'm shy

 

[Based Vampire]

I would be fine with talking to a friend once or twice a month but with friendships and social circles you always need to entertain them and maintain your position by having charisma, I just can't do it I don't know how do people never run out of things to say or to do

It's why I wish to be rich and famous so I would be in a position of power and always have people to talk to when needed but I wouldn't really need to maintain these relationships they would just be NPCs I vent to and receive feedback from.. But I don't have the charisma to achieve that so whatever

are you treating your stds bro?

 

[Tabula Rasa]

i think society is kind of weird, lot of people all in one place doing things

 

[ElishaLord]

are you treating your stds bro?

10 days doxycycline 200mg done now im eating alot of probiotic foods I think I'm good now

I still have lice it's hard to get rid of the shed I live in is really dirty so i keep catching it again

 

[Thadman]

It's why I wish to be rich and famous so I would be in a position of power and always have people to talk to when needed but I wouldn't really need
to maintain these relationships they would just be NPCs I vent to and receive feedback from.

Fun fact, no one gives a shit about you if you are rich, they only care about your money and status.

 

[Thadman]

you always need to entertain them and maintain your position by having charisma, I just can't do it I don't know how do people never run out of things to say or to d

Lol most people aren't entertaining, most conversations consist of discussing basic shit or talking about themselves.

 

[ElishaLord]

Fun fact, no one gives a shit about you if you are rich, they only care about your money and status.

I thought rich and famous people were worshipped by people who aspire to be like them? I worship Chads but it's more about their looks so I should focus on that...

Lol most people aren't entertaining, most conversations consist of discussing basic shit or talking about themselves.

no groups of friends always make jokes and are really good at making conversation it takes alot of work for an autist

 

[Tabula Rasa]

how to solve? well, i wish other people were like me and prefer easy and comfortable lifestyle but they will still go ahead their own machinations

 

[Thadman]

im not very charismatic and i think i prefer being on the sidelines and being an observer rather than just doing human social things.

the vast majority of people lack charm or interesting things to say, communication is about how you say things rather than what you say. Most people talk about the most basic & bland shit possible but still manage to have engaging convos, it really boils down to how you communicate your thoughts & ideas to others rather than what you say. If you are discussing some personal issues and someone goes like "i dont give a shit", that likely means you just did a shit job of communicating it.

no groups of friends always make jokes and are really good at making conversation it takes alot of work for an autist

Yeah once you get to know someone enough then maybe.

I thought rich and famous people were worshipped by people who aspire to be like them? I worship Chads but it's more about their looks so I should focus on that...

Having good looks or money is one thing, but if you have nothing else to offer then people will only value you for your looks or wealth.

 

[Tabula Rasa]

the vast majority of people lack charm or interesting things to say, communication is about how you say things rather than what you say. Most people talk about the most basic & bland shit possible but still manage to have engaging convos, it really boils down to how you communicate your thoughts & ideas to others rather than what you say. If you are discussing some personal issues and someone goes like "i dont give a shit", that likely means you just did a shit job of communicating it.


Yeah once you get to know someone enough then maybe.


Having good looks or money is one thing, but if you have nothing else to offer then people will only value you for your looks or wealth.

its not even communication.. its like when others decide to execute on things and make goals

 

[Tabula Rasa]

it would be easier if everyone was clones of me, why bother to interact with unknown entity you absolutely have no clue about?

 

[Deleted member 1617]

i see and observe people.. (even people on the internet), it’s kinda weird to me how humans interact with each other, its the personality or behaviour that i’m not really accustomed to, so.. the title is, im not very charismatic and i think i prefer being on the sidelines and being an observer rather than just doing human social things. why am I on this forum then? for personal enjoyment, I guess. internet is my entertainment and i guess ill just keep reading things, making my own comments and thoughts but always being an observer rather than interact with others… just keeping a far distance. i just prefer doing things on my own and keeping to myself. so why make this thread? for validation? well, i’m bored and i think i want to write this and express my thoughts and observations ina stream of conscious kind of way. i’m going to die soon anyway. it’s all kind of weird. (life, existence) i’m weird.

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