in love but avoidant

[brumgum]

i have this crush on someone, and i'm moving out. i don't plan on confessing but damn, i wish i could, but i know it's wrong. i dont want to have any romance before i get engaged to said person. maybe, in college, i'll get to reconnect...

 

[Haruhi Suzumiya]

Just tell her, what the worst it can happen, unless she finds someone else.

 

[Magonia]

The best thing to do if you are avoidant is to stop being avoidant,

Im lowkey avoidant myself so im hypocrite

 

[brumgum]

Just tell her, what the worst it can happen, unless she finds someone else.

i wont be able to look at that pretty face without feeling ashamed bro (ev&doe i'm moving out)

 

[Deleted member 2241]

i wont be able to look at that pretty face without feeling ashamed bro (ev&doe i'm moving out)

Do you just like her because of her looks or do you enjoy talking to her in general, if you just enjoy talking to her you can probably grab a phone number.

 

[brumgum]

Do you just like her because of her looks or do you enjoy talking to her in general, if you just enjoy talking to her you can probably grab a phone number.

doesnt talk much but i can get our interests are alike and is chill. I dont want to grab a phone number because i'll fall into the 'in love then broken up' trope. plus i dont want it to progress into something else that leads me to doing some abhorrent things

 

[Deleted member 82]

tell her you watched ALL anime, that would be good ice-breaker

 

[brumgum]

tell her you watched ALL anime, that would be good ice-breaker

im moving out to a different city tomorrow, so i wouldnt be able to do that.

 

[Deleted member 82]

im moving out to a different city tomorrow, so i wouldnt be able to do that.