
Eren
- Nov 28, 2020
- 4,171
You contradict and argue with most people who you disagree with- trying to change their minds or stump them with facts & logic.
I know personally this is one of my biggest flaws I always have to be right & I score quite high on the disagreeableness scale. Observationally the majority of these forums is the same way. Coupled with the fact the majority of us hold fringe beliefs it's not a good combo.
You never make friends or get on people's good side by doing this. You usually don't change their minds either. Normies either are agreeable or they make themselves agreeable for the sake of social courtesy. It's honestly the better way to go I've made resolutions to work on this.
I know personally this is one of my biggest flaws I always have to be right & I score quite high on the disagreeableness scale. Observationally the majority of these forums is the same way. Coupled with the fact the majority of us hold fringe beliefs it's not a good combo.
You never make friends or get on people's good side by doing this. You usually don't change their minds either. Normies either are agreeable or they make themselves agreeable for the sake of social courtesy. It's honestly the better way to go I've made resolutions to work on this.