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Are you both a NEET and an incel?


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FrothySolutions

FrothySolutions

NEET
Dec 2, 2020
7
Looksmax is part of the Incels.co family of forums. But surprisingly, it's full of people who didn't come from Incels.co. Many of them didn't even know it was associated with Incels.co.

It's early goings here so the news of this forum has probably not spread. So maybe I should ask this question in a few months when outsiders have found it. Like they did with Looksmax. Because I wanna know, can you be NEET but not incel? I feel like you can't, but people on Dotco will say "No, you can be NEET but not incel if you look good enough." If that's true, then surely a NEETChad will join at some point. There's presently no rule against it that I can find.
 
Blackguard

Blackguard

~ELITE-NEET~
Nov 26, 2020
546
YES! You can be a NEET and not an incel. Any "successes" I've had, hasn't made me want to work.
Or made me any less blackpilled about the big picture. I don't want my NEETdom ruined by long-term commitments or a goofy pursuit of "validation".
 
Unemployed

Unemployed

Control the narrative
Nov 28, 2020
6,611
I knew a chad who was/is still a NEET but not incel. He dropped out from school because he had adhd and was on acid trips often. Still, he was a good programmer. Just not made for school.
 
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FrothySolutions

FrothySolutions

NEET
Dec 2, 2020
7
YES! You can be a NEET and not an incel. Any "successes" I've had, hasn't made me want to work.
Or made me any less blackpilled about the big picture. I don't want my NEETdom ruined by long-term commitments or a goofy pursuit of "validation".

How'd you do it?
 
Blackguard

Blackguard

~ELITE-NEET~
Nov 26, 2020
546
I got full federal disability(USA). Plus I was fortunate enough to get a modest trust fund. Which allows me to have a roughly middle class existance.
 
Eren

Eren

‎ ‏‏‎ ‏‏‎ ‏‏‎ ‏‏‎ ‏‏‎ ‏‏‎ ‏‏‎ ‏‏‎ ‏‏
Nov 28, 2020
4,141
As a 17 year old I consider myself neither yet. I would identify more as a volcel as I haven't tried approaching any women.
 
Original

Original

I wanna lock in and i think i’m forgetting how
Dec 2, 2020
2,784
As a 17 year old I consider myself neither yet. I would identify more as a volcel as I haven't tried approaching any women.
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FrothySolutions

FrothySolutions

NEET
Dec 2, 2020
7
I got full federal disability(USA). Plus I was fortunate enough to get a modest trust fund. Which allows me to have a roughly middle class existance.

Interesting. But I was more interested in how you managed to not be an incel. What are you doing with your sex life?
 
Blackguard

Blackguard

~ELITE-NEET~
Nov 26, 2020
546
Interesting. But I was more interested in how you managed to not be an incel. What are you doing with your sex life?
I sometimes have non-committal relationships, but I have also gone YEARS without any sex/relations.
 
bill00

bill00

NEET
Dec 2, 2020
13
approaching is a meme that only makes males orbit and jester around for females that aren't even interested in them, really. females go for those they find attractive themselves.
Only Chads get approached Most normies have or have had gfs
 
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Guest

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Only Chads get approached Most normies have or have had gfs
yes, "chad" as in males that they are genuinely attracted to very much. a relationship is meaningless if you're the one trying to keep the female around, if you're the "expendable" one. it's just a burden, then. if this burden isn't in the shoulders of the female, there's no need to bother is how i see it.
 
Zargrim

Zargrim

NEET
Dec 3, 2020
1,191
I'm an ex normie NEET, so I could probably get a gf/laid if I put in the effort. The thing is I don't want to put in the effort, and most women expect you to actually care about them unless you are exceptionally good looking.
 
paint the mirror

paint the mirror

Nov 27, 2020
29
I joined Incels.co back in 2018.
At this point I honestly don't know if I'm an incel, it's really hard to tell.
I did get asked out by girls in high school and had two dates with girls from Instagram that lived a little further away, so that would indicate that I'm not too ugly. It still doesn't make sense in the eye of lookism because I'm a little below average height, have a very very narrow frame and I had severe acne back then along with glasses and other subhuman traits.
My social anxiety and inferiority complexes always held and still hold me back. I am still a virgin.
But nowadays I'm avoiding people because I'm no longer in school where I'm exposed to people, so the chance of me becoming a normie non-virgin get slimmer and slimmer.
And honestly, I don't even care. I like it that way. I don't like most people, they annoy me. I'm more like a volcel now, I guess.
 
FrothySolutions

FrothySolutions

NEET
Dec 2, 2020
7
Well nice to see you here OP. Remember how I got banned on co because of you, huh :)

I don't think you did? Who are you?

I sometimes have non-committal relationships, but I have also gone YEARS without any sex/relations.

How do you achieve these relationships? You don't have a job, where are you meeting people? And how are you entering relationships with them?
 
Panzer

Panzer

Panzerkampfwagen
Nov 26, 2020
74
As a 17 year old I consider myself neither yet. I would identify more as a volcel as I haven't tried approaching any women.

Don’t “approach”, just talk and respond and don’t expect anything to happen because 99.99% of it all is useless, if a girl likes you she will let you know, she won’t make it hard at all. It’s just relaxing and going with the flow, if you can do that.
 
NEETmax2TheBrimBoyo

NEETmax2TheBrimBoyo

Maximum OverNEET
Dec 9, 2020
110
No, I'm not incel, but I am NEET.

approaching is a meme that only makes males orbit and jester around for females that aren't even interested in them, really. females go for those they find attractive themselves.
Foids have so much power and they select men purely based on looks

I see these narratives thrown around a lot and I feel like it needs some nuance. I don't know what type of insane terachad you have to be to get women to show initiative in day-to-day situations (i.e. grocery store, library, walking down the street, ...,). Unless you're talking about the nightlife scene (although I'd counter with 'why are you there to begin with as an incel'), then sure women will definitely approach chad or sometimes even chadlite but I don't think you can make the argument that approaching would be useless for chad or chadlite just because some women approach him. It's still increasing his odds of sex.

If you are low SMV and you're approaching women - especially attractive ones - prepare to epically waste your time, but if you are at least normie level I don't think approaching is bad as long as you can mentally deal with getting mass rejected or women even being rude.

As for women selecting men purely based on looks... if you take identical twins except 1 is a NEET living at home while the other is a millionaire entrepreneur who do you think women will prefer? Bit of an extreme example but it's just to illustrate that money, status etc. do matter. Do they matter as much as looks? Not even close, I think we are all blackpilled here and agree, but claiming literally nothing else matters is absurd. If you don't think that some women who are not into you now would also not be into you if you had an above average job, nice car and your own property you are coping.
 
Zargrim

Zargrim

NEET
Dec 3, 2020
1,191
As for women selecting men purely based on looks... if you take identical twins except 1 is a NEET living at home while the other is a millionaire entrepreneur who do you think women will prefer? Bit of an extreme example but it's just to illustrate that money, status etc. do matter. Do they matter as much as looks? Not even close, I think we are all blackpilled here and agree, but claiming literally nothing else matters is absurd. If you don't think that some women who are not into you now would also not be into you if you had an above average job, nice car and your own property you are coping.
I agree with this. Women are whores and that is a good thing.
 
NeverEndingWinter

NeverEndingWinter

NEET
Dec 7, 2020
9,501
No woman has ever shown interest in me so I guess I'm an incel. I got a few matches on Tinder the first time I tried it but never tried it again. Technically, most users here could probably betabux if they were successful in terms of careers but personally, if I had a good income, I'd rather see an escort every week opposed to betabuxxing.
 
meremy jeeks

meremy jeeks

Janny
Nov 29, 2020
179
No, I'm not incel, but I am NEET.




I see these narratives thrown around a lot and I feel like it needs some nuance. I don't know what type of insane terachad you have to be to get women to show initiative in day-to-day situations (i.e. grocery store, library, walking down the street, ...,). Unless you're talking about the nightlife scene (although I'd counter with 'why are you there to begin with as an incel'), then sure women will definitely approach chad or sometimes even chadlite but I don't think you can make the argument that approaching would be useless for chad or chadlite just because some women approach him. It's still increasing his odds of sex.

If you are low SMV and you're approaching women - especially attractive ones - prepare to epically waste your time, but if you are at least normie level I don't think approaching is bad as long as you can mentally deal with getting mass rejected or women even being rude.

As for women selecting men purely based on looks... if you take identical twins except 1 is a NEET living at home while the other is a millionaire entrepreneur who do you think women will prefer? Bit of an extreme example but it's just to illustrate that money, status etc. do matter. Do they matter as much as looks? Not even close, I think we are all blackpilled here and agree, but claiming literally nothing else matters is absurd. If you don't think that some women who are not into you now would also not be into you if you had an above average job, nice car and your own property you are coping.
Din read
 
FeminismIsCancer

FeminismIsCancer

Marecel
Nov 30, 2020
1,358
I knew a chad who was/is still a NEET but not incel. He dropped out from school because he had adhd and was on acid trips often. Still, he was a good programmer. Just not made for school.
Actually being chad always guarantees pussy by definition so he could even live in a cardboard box and still get laid. The NEET but not incel here are probably all over 6’ and nw0
 
dreadtheblackpill

dreadtheblackpill

the supreme youngcel gentleman
Nov 26, 2020
407
Not neet cuz high school but yes incel
 
meremy jeeks

meremy jeeks

Janny
Nov 29, 2020
179
No, I'm not incel, but I am NEET.




I see these narratives thrown around a lot and I feel like it needs some nuance. I don't know what type of insane terachad you have to be to get women to show initiative in day-to-day situations (i.e. grocery store, library, walking down the street, ...,). Unless you're talking about the nightlife scene (although I'd counter with 'why are you there to begin with as an incel'), then sure women will definitely approach chad or sometimes even chadlite but I don't think you can make the argument that approaching would be useless for chad or chadlite just because some women approach him. It's still increasing his odds of sex.

If you are low SMV and you're approaching women - especially attractive ones - prepare to epically waste your time, but if you are at least normie level I don't think approaching is bad as long as you can mentally deal with getting mass rejected or women even being rude.

As for women selecting men purely based on looks... if you take identical twins except 1 is a NEET living at home while the other is a millionaire entrepreneur who do you think women will prefer? Bit of an extreme example but it's just to illustrate that money, status etc. do matter. Do they matter as much as looks? Not even close, I think we are all blackpilled here and agree, but claiming literally nothing else matters is absurd. If you don't think that some women who are not into you now would also not be into you if you had an above average job, nice car and your own property you are coping.
Shut up chad not all of us have tinder foids wanting to fuck
 
01zephyr10

01zephyr10

Short term memory loss truecel living on Neet bux
Dec 12, 2020
914
Being the Virgin that I am; How the Hell am I supposed to know, weather or not, I'm an Incel!!!!!!???????
 
Danish Retard

Danish Retard

factory slave
Nov 29, 2020
87
I'm KHHV but not incel. I've never even tried. I have barely even tried looksmaxxing and I've gotten approached by women even while fat, I just don't have the slightest game so I get stuck in the early phases and they usually notice after like 30 min to 1 hour.
And fuck man I want to be neet so hard but its not possible for me in this life.
 
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