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- Mar 23, 2023
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I have 50/50 custody with my ex husband @PointOfNoReturn of our two children (15M, 12F). Our marriage ended 4 years ago due to his infidelity, but he wasn't able to take responsibility for his actions and instead fell hard into misogynistic ways of thinking: claiming I cheated on him first and insisting on a paternity test to make sure the kids were his, saying he only cheated because I was "used up" from my sexual history prior to him, saying I "let myself go", calling himself a "high value male" and saying he needs a wife who will be at his beck and call, stuff like that. You've heard about those podcasts, it's that stuff.
He apparently makes comments like this regularly to our kids, and our daughter is beyond pissed off at it. He originally tried to push his views on her, and wasn't listening to me when I told him he needed to stop, but thankfully she's an assertive kid and she shut him down. Unfortunately our son is more impressionable and has been slowly starting to take on these views. He has gotten in trouble multiple times in school for making misogynistic and inappropriate comments towards girls and female teachers. I have had to ban him from online gaming because of the disgusting things he's said about and to women. He considers himself an incel, with every messed up viewpoint that goes with that, and simply does not respect me or his sister at all because we're female.
He apparently makes comments like this regularly to our kids, and our daughter is beyond pissed off at it. He originally tried to push his views on her, and wasn't listening to me when I told him he needed to stop, but thankfully she's an assertive kid and she shut him down. Unfortunately our son is more impressionable and has been slowly starting to take on these views. He has gotten in trouble multiple times in school for making misogynistic and inappropriate comments towards girls and female teachers. I have had to ban him from online gaming because of the disgusting things he's said about and to women. He considers himself an incel, with every messed up viewpoint that goes with that, and simply does not respect me or his sister at all because we're female.
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