Discussion positive reinforcement is overpowered

[akame]

I remember I e-dated a girl for 4 months and felt joyful full of energy everyday, everything in life became so simple and everyday looking after myself and improving was so easy, I felt a small fraction of what chad feels his entire life

no wonder chad always wins at everything, the constant positive reinforcement flowing to his brain makes him feel like a God and allows him to conquer everything with ease

 

[brumgum]

over for abused dogs. jfl.

 

[7zyzz7]

I e-dated a girl for 4 months

 

[Saladino]

I remember I e-dated a girl for 4 months and felt joyful full of energy everyday, everything in life became so simple and everyday looking after myself and improving was so easy, I felt a small fraction of what chad feels his entire life

no wonder chad always wins at everything, the constant positive reinforcement flowing to his brain makes him feel like a God and allows him to conquer everything with ease

It happened to me
All day long hoping for that notification
Dating should be in person only

 

[lunin5]

Yep that’s why I don’t take a lot of people who
Improve or those annoying self care foids seriously, they grew up being cared by everyone while I got negative reinforcement most of my early years. Thus world is a joke

 

[Lain]

I was at my fittest/healthiest when I was with my ex, I went to uni and nearly graduated, worked out 3x+ a week religiously, was straight edge, I had illusions of working in the field even, the power of sex is massive on the brain. I think if I had been in a long term romantic relationship with sex when I was younger, I wouldn't have lurked in NEET forums/imageboards and would've kept the normie state of mind regarding progression.

I suppose the difference is, when you're alone all the time, the requirements for a good life is mainly one of self centered short term enjoyment, when you're with someone else (as in, living with them or planning) your goal oriented behavior is more situated on the long term with them.

It's somehow hard for me to imagine living with someone at this point, it always seems as if there's some obstacle in the way when I date someone. Most of the time spent on NEET forums or Discord with somewhat unreal interactions that never click the same way, you know? I think I'm living close to the ideal life though, minus not having a girl live with me/sex. I can't complain much, really, given the circumstances of my life, I live an exceptionally blessed life.