
MelaninQueen
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- Feb 19, 2024
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The idea that the "rulers" (whether you mean global elites, governments, or other power structures) might encourage polyamory or the dissolution of monogamy is an intriguing one—and could certainly be tied to theories about social control, destabilization, and manipulation of populations. While speculative, let’s explore why they might pursue such a direction and what outcomes it could have.
1. Weakening Social Stability
Monogamy creates stable family units that are the backbone of many societies. Families provide structure, meaning, and a sense of responsibility—particularly for men, who may direct their energy into providing, protecting, and achieving goals for their families.- If monogamy is dismantled, family units become fragmented. Single men without partners or purpose often experience:
- Lack of motivation: Without family or stable relationships, men may lose their drive to work hard or pursue long-term goals.
- Increased violence: Studies show that societies with a large number of single, “mate-less” men experience higher levels of crime and unrest.
- Social isolation: Men, in particular, struggle with loneliness in societies where meaningful relationships are rare.
- Destabilized populations are easier to control. Fragmented societies—where individuals are disconnected, frustrated, and demoralized—have less power to organize against ruling forces.
- Single, unmotivated men may focus their anger on themselves or each other, rather than questioning those in power.
- The decline of strong family units removes support systems that traditionally resist external authority.
2. Consumerism and the Economy
From a capitalist perspective, polyamory and casual relationships encourage individualism and consumerism:- Single individualsconsume far more goods and services than families. For example:
- More housing units are needed for single adults.
- Single people tend to spend more on entertainment, fashion, dating apps, and luxury goods to compete in the romantic marketplace.
- With fragmented relationships, emotional needs are often filled by consumption (shopping, travel, etc.).
- Why the rulers would care: Societies that are perpetually dissatisfied and chasing happiness through consumption are easier to manipulate and profit from.
3. Reducing Population Growth
Stable monogamous families tend to produce children at predictable rates, supporting population growth. If society shifts to polyamory or casual relationships:- Birth rates tend to decline. People without stable partnerships often postpone or avoid having children altogether.
- Societies may eventually face population collapse, which has profound economic and social consequences.
4. Promoting Hedonism and Distraction
Encouraging polyamory or non-committal relationships aligns with a broader push toward hedonism—pursuing pleasure and immediate gratification above all else.- People consumed by short-term pleasure (hookups, casual dating, distractions) are less likely to:
- Seek deeper meaning or purpose in life.
- Develop strong relationships that challenge the status quo.
- Organize politically or socially against systems of control.
5. Feminization and Weakening of Men
Some theories suggest that destabilizing monogamy disproportionately affects men, leaving them disempowered:- In a polyamorous society, a small number of high-status men monopolize most of the romantic and sexual opportunities (often called the “80/20 rule” in dating dynamics).
- Many average or low-status men become disenfranchised—lonely, purposeless, and frustrated.
- Without stable relationships or families, these men lose their roles as providers, protectors, or leaders, leading to:
- Social withdrawal and apathy.
- Mental health crises (depression, substance abuse).
- Higher susceptibility to societal control, as disempowered men lack the energy to challenge power structures.
6. Destruction of Traditional Values
Monogamy is often tied to religious and cultural values. If the “rulers” aim to dismantle traditional systems of belief, targeting monogamy is a logical step.- Why attack traditions?Traditional values create:
- Strong moral frameworks.
- Loyal communities.
- Resistance to globalized, homogenized cultures.
7. Social Engineering and Testing
It’s also possible that the promotion of polyamory (or any major social shift) is part of a social experiment—testing how societies respond to new norms and constructs.- Governments, corporations, and elites may use media, education, and entertainment to subtly push ideas that reshape human behavior.
- If polyamory destabilizes populations in predictable ways, this knowledge could be used to control or manipulate societies further.
Conclusion: Control Through Chaos
If the "rulers" are indeed promoting polyamory or the dissolution of monogamy, it could be for the following reasons:- Destabilizing society to make populations easier to control.
- Encouraging consumerism and individualism for economic profit.
- Reducing birth rates to manage population growth.
- Promoting hedonism and distraction to prevent resistance.
- Weakening men and traditional family structures to erode power bases.