Serious The problem with trying to be NT/ socialize

[Abi No]

You're forced to become someone who you really aren't, socialisation is based on deception and hiding your true self in favour of society standards. You're put in a position of faking how you feel, what you believe, how you behave so people will tolerate you at best. You must also realise people are putting on an act like you, you're never able to perform a proper connection because of it, trying to befriend people irl is practically impossible and if achieved, it will be a relationship based on dishonesty

You could only make 'friends' by connections you make when you were a kid or younger, because every kid was low inhib and can form connections by the simplest bonds. But as people grow older, everyone is complex and don't seek any form of relationship unless it benefits them

 

[incelkingkong]

just be urself bro

 

[Bolewoy]

Tbh, i can only be my true self when talking to other neets/incels.

 

[Kaz]

I'd like to argue against but maybe it's just fantasy. I've been alone so much that I can only project my feelings. When people spend time-bonding, it crates frustration to keep the act. Sooner or later the benefit is to be acknowledged as the real me and not be abandoned. Friendship is a form of love without sexual tension, important as any other feeling. Experiences are the best way since there will be situations where you have to count on each other. Aiming for common goals might create something better than the original intention. You keep creating memories together, no matter if they are good or not. Memories only you two can relate to and understand.

 

[Zargrim]

just be urself bro

this but unironically

 

[FastBananaCEO]

Being NT is basically just dumbing yourself down

 

[Renko]

been inside my room living in social aolitude for so long i struggle hard talking to other humans

 

[kodoku]

im also always putting an act, i dont know who i am truly

 

[jaded jabble]

You're forced to become someone who you really aren't, socialisation is based on deception and hiding your true self in favour of society standards. You're put in a position of faking how you feel, what you believe, how you behave so people will tolerate you at best. You must also realise people are putting on an act like you, you're never able to perform a proper connection because of it, trying to befriend people irl is practically impossible and if achieved, it will be a relationship based on dishonesty

You could only make 'friends' by connections you make when you were a kid or younger, because every kid was low inhib and can form connections by the simplest bonds. But as people grow older, everyone is complex and don't seek any form of relationship unless it benefits them

Brutal

 

[orchis]

Relationships are all so fleeting these days.

 

[NeoSturmer]

I tried being nt when I was 14 and I failed so hard

 

[FeminismIsCancer]

My only friend is my cat. Cats have some sort of natural autistic vibe to them.

 

[incelkingkong]

I tried being nt when I was 14 and I failed so hard

 

[Copesville]

when youre subhuman, the only nt you'll be is a jester who gets no respect.

 

[Fabio]

For me to fit with everyday normies I would have to be oscar-winning actor tier ngl.

 

[Zargrim]

For me to fit with everyday normies I would have to be oscar-winning actor tier ngl.

there is one rule and only one rule:
don't say weird shit

 

[Abi No]

Relationships are all so fleeting these days.

True, there aren't such things as brotherhood anymore