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« on: June 16, 2021, 03:24:29 pm »

I’m struggling to climax during sex any others have the same problem?

I’ve no physical problems I’m aware of everything ok health wise, over the last few months more and more punts have resulted in me effectively running down the clock, I have and maintain a good erection I don’t use viagra but an increasing number of punts just end with me pulling stumps so to speak, never been an issue before, I don’t watch much porn or wank that often, sometimes it’s awkward as the SP is like What’s wrong I’ve been banging away for 40+ mins with no end result, I make some excuse or other and leave with my boner tucked in my pants I’m guessing it’s a physiological issue and I’m going to have to get professional medical help but thought I might see if it’s common with others.

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« Reply #1 on: June 16, 2021, 03:38:12 pm »

Once again I can offer no real assistance about this other than to suggest having a word with someone about it. Perhaps your GP for a start.
I would also agree with you it’s almost certainly a mental issue rather than anything physical.
The downside of things like this is that if you worry more about it the thing just exacerbates.

I am sure others on here might have advise or have had something similar. But everyone is different….. if you know what I mean.

Good luck.

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« Reply #2 on: June 16, 2021, 04:42:00 pm »

Yes, intermittently since I started punting but has also been an issue in civvie relationships. Punting-wise I’d say it’s a combination of 1) overthinking or being in my head a bit too much and not being able to get into “liberated sex mode”, 2) condoms reducing sensitivity and 3) not feeling particularly aroused by the SP/situation, especially if the SP is dominating the punt. Any one of those can affect me and they’re, of course, interrelated. Depends on how I’m feeling on the day as well..

It’s complicated I guess but ultimately it’s all in the mind, so try not to let it get to you. (Easier said than done!). I’ve had it happen with the same SP in three different meets, my most expensive punts as well. The last two times I wanked myself to completion, which was ok but not really what I wanted and I left feeling glum. I figured there’s some kind of mental block with her, can’t quite work it out but won’t be spending any more money trying to.

Anyway feel free to PM me if you wanna chat more.

 

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HarryRoss​

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« on: March 16, 2014, 07:03:14 pm »

From my knowledge, most punters tend to book 30 mins or 1 hour, maybe longer for regulars. But how many times can you cum within the session?

Personally I mostly book 1 hour and usually cum twice, but for recent booking, I found myself difficult to cum twice. No matter I managed myself to keep longer for the first cum or just kept natural and followed my feeling, the second cum became much harder (maybe becuz I was tired and not fully recharged?).

I've seen a review which mentioned the round 4 during 1 hour, sounds amazing.

What about you guys, how many times can you cum during 30-45 mins or 1 hr? And what about 2-3 hrs? Cheers.

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« Reply #1 on: March 16, 2014, 07:15:48 pm »

Quote from: HarryRoss on March 16, 2014, 07:03:14 pm

From my knowledge, most punters tend to book 30 mins or 1 hour, maybe longer for regulars. But how many times can you cum within the session?

Personally I mostly book 1 hour and usually cum twice, but for recent booking, I found myself difficult to cum twice. No matter I managed myself to keep longer for the first cum or just kept natural and followed my feeling, the second cum became much harder (maybe becuz I was tired and not fully recharged?).

I've seen a review which mentioned the round 4 during 1 hour, sounds amazing.

What about you guys, how many times can you cum during 30-45 mins or 1 hr? And what about 2-3 hrs? Cheers.

All sort of factors come in to play here. Age, fitness, mental state, alcohol, illness, health, ambiance and the partner you have chosen etc etc. I used to get very hung up on this and my aim was to achieve twice in an hour. That put pressure on myself and often I could not manage a second time. Now I go into a punt with an open mind. If it happens only once then fine, twice then great. I have even managed three on very rare occasions.

Just let it all happen naturally than try to put yourself under pressure, fail and then worry about it or feel you did not get value for money.

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« Reply #2 on: March 16, 2014, 07:23:51 pm »

I am the other way round. I cum once then I can start again quickly but never release a second time. Used to get hung up about it but now figure if your having fun who cares.

 

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Once met an escort who said she knew a guy threat could cum loads of times, which sounded fun. Until she explained it was more a case of he suffered from repeating premature ejaculation. Don’t know if it was a bull shit story, but she said the guy would continually pop at the slightest provocation. Unzip his jeans, boom. Touch his cock, boom. Rub his cock, boob. Try and give him a blowjob, boom. The poor guy couldn’t get a condom on without making a mess.

Apparently it made the session problematic and he seemed to get frustrated because he couldn’t settle into things and enjoy himself properly.

I’d echo the advice above and go with the flow. Don’t worry if you can’t cum more than once and you are squirting like a fire hose.

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« Reply #33 on: July 17, 2021, 05:18:42 pm »

It's not all about how often you can cum, although the visual aspect can appear impressive. It's about the quality of your orgasm.

I discovered Betamax porn when I was around 20, in those days I could cum twice in around 15mins (and three times in an hour). A real, full-on wanking sesh. I was fully turned on and could get hard again and cum again.

40yrs on, I can manage a second cum in an hour if I'm lucky.

But...and there is a but...ejaculation was fast, very fast, and no good with a woman.

These days I can fuck for well over an hour, full-on fucking with changes of position making small gaps in the action. All that time spent fucking is pleasurable, being able to last that long. When I cum at the end of that time, my orgasm is ten times what it used to be.

I guess I would say it, because I have no say in the matter, I'm now an old git. But hey, I know which version of me I prefer

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I was with a Romanian SP and because I hadn’t cum within 10 minutes she said what’s wrong with your dick. That was the last time I’ll ever visit a SP from that country. Complete Bitch

 

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I ejaculate fine. Dear.

 

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I have had this problem and a sympathetic WG with whom I was a regular told me that I ought to wank less, as choking the chicken too often results in a degree of desensitisation that can inhibit ejaculation. I reduced my episodes of spaking the monkey and after a little while, I found ejaculation easier. Note that like the OP I hadn't had any trouble getting a stiffy.