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BaileysnBananas
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- Nov 12, 2024
- 5
I suck at reading social cues so please help:
There's this one machine in the gym (shoulder press machine) and the last 2 times I've used it I've looked around the gym while resting between sets and I'd catch a girl staring at me and both times I wasn't wearing glasses but I think they looked.... concerned? Idk why because I wasn't doing anything weird. Is it possible they were checking me out ?? Btw first girl was a skinny white blonde girl who looked around 18 and the 2nd was an Indian girl doing squats in pink leggings... both quite attractive. I doubt they were checking me out because I'm overweight and my haircut isn't stylish but then again I am tall and have some muscles so maybe they were? Tinder has got my self esteem so low from not getting any matches.
Also the first time it happened the blonde girl was with a blonde guy on the bench and the guy was facing away from me while she was facing towards me. I was looking up while doing the shoulder press then when I looked back down she was across the gym staring at me. If she wasn't with a guy I would've been tempted to go say hi to her but I couldn't tell if the guy was her friend, her brother or her bf so I didn't. Man I should get over my fear of starting conversations with women, right now the gym is my only sort of opportunity to do it. I tried talking to a woman at the gym a few months ago and it was so awkward though. There's also a singles event at a bar near me next thursday but I doubt it'd go well. I can just imagine them asking "so wdyd?" "I've been unemployed for the last year, wdyd?" LOL
Thanks for reading my rant anyway, I'm banned from reddit so I can't rant there.
There's this one machine in the gym (shoulder press machine) and the last 2 times I've used it I've looked around the gym while resting between sets and I'd catch a girl staring at me and both times I wasn't wearing glasses but I think they looked.... concerned? Idk why because I wasn't doing anything weird. Is it possible they were checking me out ?? Btw first girl was a skinny white blonde girl who looked around 18 and the 2nd was an Indian girl doing squats in pink leggings... both quite attractive. I doubt they were checking me out because I'm overweight and my haircut isn't stylish but then again I am tall and have some muscles so maybe they were? Tinder has got my self esteem so low from not getting any matches.
Also the first time it happened the blonde girl was with a blonde guy on the bench and the guy was facing away from me while she was facing towards me. I was looking up while doing the shoulder press then when I looked back down she was across the gym staring at me. If she wasn't with a guy I would've been tempted to go say hi to her but I couldn't tell if the guy was her friend, her brother or her bf so I didn't. Man I should get over my fear of starting conversations with women, right now the gym is my only sort of opportunity to do it. I tried talking to a woman at the gym a few months ago and it was so awkward though. There's also a singles event at a bar near me next thursday but I doubt it'd go well. I can just imagine them asking "so wdyd?" "I've been unemployed for the last year, wdyd?" LOL
Thanks for reading my rant anyway, I'm banned from reddit so I can't rant there.
