Discussion Why do incels ignore the infighting and toxicity of their community

[frightfulcel]

Its really weird to me. Incels constantly dox and bully eachother and then the community pretends like this isn't happening. They also talk about going ER and are generally extermely rageful but again people act as if this doesn't happen.

Why is this

 

[MelaninQueen]

Aren't you an incel too?

 

[frightfulcel]

Aren't you an incel too?

Yes

 

[Deleted member 1365]

Men tend to hate each other, and they constantly try to find any excuse to fight each other because it's in our nature.

Women are the opposite and they will gang up with any other woman even if they dont have anything in common, women fighting each other happens but it's not usual.

Meanwhile, men will fight each other since kids because one thinks Spiderman is cooler and the other thinks Batman is cooler

Same with politics, the USSR and China fighting each other in the Cold War cuz they dont like how the other implements communism. In any place with men there will be fights

 

[despera]

Why are you surprised ? So many LARPers, constant hate from normies and dissatisfaction from life made them hateful

 

[Deleted member 1462]

That's essentially a fakecel trait.

 

[frightfulcel]

Men tend to hate each other, and they constantly try to find any excuse to fight each other because it's in our nature.

Women are the opposite and they will gang up with any other woman even if they dont have anything in common, women fighting each other happens but it's not usual.

Meanwhile, men will fight each other since kids because one thinks Spiderman is cooler and the other thinks Batman is cooler

Same with politics, the USSR and China fighting each other in the Cold War cuz they dont like how the other implements communism. In any place with men there will be fights

It suprises me that a community that often times says they're extremely logical and pro incel hate eachother more than the normies they claim to hate

 

[Deleted member 2241]

That's essentially a fakecel trait.

Not true being lonely makes you hateful

 

[Zangano1]

ER doesnt mean violence

 

[frightfulcel]

ER doesnt mean violence

They are still keyboard warriors to eachother and try their best to dox eachother if possible, plus the whole ER thing is proof of their hostility

 

[MelaninQueen]

Why are you surprised ? So many LARPers, constant hate from normies and dissatisfaction from life made them hateful

Do you think I'm hateful?

 

[MelaninQueen]

ER doesnt mean violence

The fight can be done spiritually, too. That's why I advocate for going Elliot Rodger: battle them with words.

 

[gilu997]

It's not really a community, everyone there believes they're the biggest victim, hence the stuff like, jbw, jbb etc that they all bring up to make themselves seem more of an incel to others, trying to get more incel clout by calling yourself more deformed/loser than the others. User has friends irl? Fakecel. User had one conversation with a girl in 6th grade? Fakecel.
It's just weird platitudes thrown around, they wanna prove that they suffer more and others suffer less than them, and will be quick to mock others, so called normies when they get cucked/dumped, just because "I hecking hate the normies bro".
Go on incels, or even looksmax and you'll see the idiocy of these lot, their incel brotherhood seemingly only lasts until they get a girlfriend it seems, or for a few months till they just get bored of the incessant self-pity that they spew on a daily basis, just idiocy that is to be expected from these lot

 

[frightfulcel]

It's not really a community, everyone there believes they're the biggest victim, hence the stuff like, jbw, jbb etc that they all bring up to make themselves seem more of an incel to others, trying to get more incel clout by calling yourself more deformed/loser than the others. User has friends irl? Fakecel. User had one conversation with a girl in 6th grade? Fakecel.
It's just weird platitudes thrown around, they wanna prove that they suffer more and others suffer less than them, and will be quick to mock others, so called normies when they get cucked/dumped, just because "I hecking hate the normies bro".
Go on incels, or even looksmax and you'll see the idiocy of these lot, their incel brotherhood seemingly only lasts until they get a girlfriend it seems, or for a few months till they just get bored of the incessant self-pity that they spew on a daily basis, just idiocy that is to be expected from these lot

Its this sort of weird virtue signalling right? I feel like .is is a site to go on, post a bit then go onto discord and join servers for social reasons. Then if someone isn't a trucel (even though many of them aren't) they go ER on that user and try to witchhunt them out.

I feel like a lot of them are not mentally there or something, or have some sort of extreme thinking. Then the other group are there for group identity or to feel edgy (often seen in discord servers)

 

[Deleted member 1462]

Not true being lonely makes you hateful

Not a justification for making constant attacks on other users and starting flamewars as your entire forum persona.
I personally unleash that anger by posting gore.

 

[MelaninQueen]

they go ER on that user and try to witchhunt them out.

I haven't seen any murder so far, so I don't know.

 

[MelaninQueen]

Not a justification for making constant attacks on other users and starting flamewars as your entire forum persona.
I personally unleash that anger by posting gore.

 

[Deleted member 1462]

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But all in all, I think my days on .is are coming to an end. I have never faced any problems with the moderation team until the new mods were appointed (with the exception of @PLA1092, who's the best and most reasonable new mod).

The problem is, the decisions made by the newer mods are never questioned, and when the older mods see that you have amassed a large number of warnings, they just assume you are in the wrong, never considering that you were targeted by a mod.

 

[frightfulcel]

Could it also be autism? As in extreme thinking. Inceldom is different to person to person, but if someone lacks social intelligence they will throw a tantrum if someone isnt 100% trucel. I think the more NT users take advantage of these people when planning their witchhunts, its like a funny game to them.

 

[MelaninQueen]

Could it also be autism? As in extreme thinking. Inceldom is different to person to person, but if someone lacks social intelligence they will throw a tantrum if someone isnt 100% trucel. I think the more NT users take advantage of these people when planning their witchhunts, its like a funny game to them.

I have high social intelligence as you can deduce from my posts. I think I'm the only neurotypical in this thread.

 

[despera]

Do you think I'm hateful?

No, those that OP talks about have reason to be hateful though

 

[Deleted member 2241]

Not a justification for making constant attacks on other users and starting flamewars as your entire forum persona.
I personally unleash that anger by posting gore.

Been there, done that, you get desensitized to gore pretty fast.

 

[Deleted member 1462]

Been there, done that, you get desensitized to gore pretty fast.

Yeah, I can stomach pretty much anything at this point; sometimes, I even laugh at the victims.

 

[Deleted member 2241]

Yeah, I can stomach pretty much anything at this point; sometimes, I even laugh at the victims.

The only thing that stands a chance is self harm buts thatd because I don't understand why someone would harm themselves lol

 

[MelaninQueen]

The only thing that stands a chance is self harm buts thatd because I don't understand why someone would harm themselves lol

Because law enforcement may be tracking you and you have no alternative other than trying to kill yourself.

 

[Deleted member 1462]

The only thing that stands a chance is self harm buts thatd because I don't understand why someone would harm themselves lol

Do you mean harming themselves by inflicting wounds or attempting to commit suicide?

 

[Saladino]

It's fun

 

[Deleted member 2241]

Do you mean harming themselves by inflicting wounds or attempting to commit suicide?

Like the videos of retarded ass foids cutting themselves super deep just to be edgy and quirky

 

[Deleted member 1462]

It's fun

 

[Deleted member 1462]

Like the videos of retarded ass foids cutting themselves super deep just to be edgy and quirky

We wuz satanic goth bitches and sheiit, yet those dumb foids will tremble with fear and condemn actual sinister acts of violence

 

[Deleted member 2206]

'Incels' aren't just on .is, the official term is involuntary celibacy, I.e men who feel their poor looks and/or mental disorders are the reason they can't have relationships or sex. .is is an echo-chamber where you only get engagement if you say hateful things. The majority of 'trucels' are either isolating with their special interests harmlessly or fiercely trying to integrate with society only to be further ridiculed for their existence.

Concerning .is, ~40% of the site is autistic and the rest are LARPing normie/4-chan migrants who signed up to be edgy or feds pushing an agenda lolol, and the turnover rate is very high due to this. I imagine it helps foster a sense of purism and mistrust among the community.

In regards to witch-hunts, it's like their own drama story. For the majority of prominent 'incels' (fakecels) the drama is entertainment and nothing more, for the remaining autists the need to remain 'pure' coincides with their intense need to maintain a black-and-white dichotomy.

 

[Deleted member 1545]

Flame wars are more likely to get a reaction
They don't genuinely care about the other person behind the screen

 

[frightfulcel]

'Incels' aren't just on .is, the official term is involuntary celibacy, I.e men who feel their poor looks and/or mental disorders are the reason they can't have relationships or sex. .is is an echo-chamber where you only get engagement if you say hateful things. The majority of 'trucels' are either isolating with their special interests harmlessly or fiercely trying to integrate with society only to be further ridiculed for their existence.

Concerning .is, ~40% of the site is autistic and the rest are LARPing normie/4-chan migrants who signed up to be edgy or feds pushing an agenda lolol, and the turnover rate is very high due to this. I imagine it helps foster a sense of purism and mistrust among the community.

In regards to witch-hunts, it's like their own drama story. For the majority of prominent 'incels' (fakecels) the drama is entertainment and nothing more, for the remaining autists the need to remain 'pure' coincides with their intense need to maintain a black-and-white dichotomy.

Thanks for your perspective