why do people think daydreaming is bad muh "maladaptive daydreaming"

[Neet194012940]

it's one of my main sources of pleasure in my life whenever im not stressed, which makes me think about bad life circumstances, or doing anything that takes my attention, my brain makes fun scenes that entertain me and make me euphoric

i don't even watch movies/consume fiction because of imagination, i need to walk around and have them all play in my head before i can focus on anything

 

[gooner23]

its a literal coping mechanism if you get consumed by your daydreams thats just the life of the average incel

 

[Neet194012940]

its a literal coping mechanism if you get consumed by your daydreams thats just the life of the average incel

yea if you daydream about your own life being better, doing x accomplisment, going on date with girl, being on vacation etc

i only daydream about cool characters in my head who go on adventures in space

 

[god.ly]

because it makes you unable to focus when getting lessons in brainwashing institutions school and when you're at your wageslave job you hate... or something

 

[Neet194012940]

because it makes you unable to focus when getting lessons in brainwashing institutions and when you're at your wageslave job you hate... or something

thats why i work in construction/physical labour, everyone else yaps or listens to tiktok or something while working

 

[god.ly]

thats why i work in construction/physical labour, everyone else yaps or listens to tiktok or something while working

didnt you work in a warehouse or something

 

[Neet194012940]

didnt you work in a warehouse or something

yuh loading/unloading trailers though i might switch to shoveling cow shit for no money (biology university internship)

 

[Riddler]

Being lost in your head. Maladaptive daydreaming/depersonalization/derealization is an autismo trait imo. It's basically extreme individualism

I had it ever since I was a kid and as you say the older I get the more I gravitate away from visual media and more to books which serve as daydream autismo fuel

It's not bad or good inherently it just has to be managed but positive neurochemistry so you don't even up in God emperor of dune pessimistic schizo world

 

[Neet194012940]

Being lost in your head. Maladaptive daydreaming/depersonalization/derealization is an autismo trait imo. It's basically extreme individualism

I had it ever since I was a kid and as you say the older I get the more I gravitate away from visual media and more to books which serve as daydream autismo fuel

It's not bad or good inherently it just has to be managed but positive neurochemistry so you don't even up in God emperor of dune pessimistic schizo world

is that why i rather take research chemicals than interact with normies?

i kind of dislike saying its autism trait, it almost implies it's inborn when it happened after i got redpilled and figured out its over in the 4/5th grades and socially defeated because of backround+subhumanity+(not autistic, just not jester/npc enough to make up for 1+2) personality combo. If i was in another environment with more opportunity beyond wagie and beta cuck it'd be very different

 

[Riddler]

is that why i rather take research chemicals than interact with normies?

i kind of dislike saying its autism trait, it almost implies it's inborn when it happened after i got redpilled and figured out its over in the 4/5th grades and socially defeated because of backround+subhumanity+(not autistic, just not jester/npc enough to make up for 1+2) personality combo. If i was in another environment with more opportunity beyond wagie and beta cuck it'd be very different

Well it's common in aspies but not necessarily strictly an aspie trait. It'd true formative years you can pick it up. It's more the adpie mind is prone to it. Ig it's neurodivergent more than aspie

 

[hikikomori]

It's not bad or good inherently it just has to be managed but positive neurochemistry so you don't even up in God emperor of dune pessimistic schizo world

im this on steroids 1000x

and now im at the point where I’m even bringing my fantasies to life with lucid dreaming

 

[Deleted member 1903]

It’s a coping mechanism for a boring lonely life and frankly arrests your development. You need to actually get friends and a life, just prancing around fantasisiing about dragons eating sweets talking to yourself is a surefire way to end up as a manchild

People like us never lifted off and stayed in the lonely pathetic daydream comfort zone.

 

[Abhorrence]

It’s a coping mechanism for a boring lonely life and frankly arrests your development. You need to actually get friends and a life, just prancing around fantasisiing about dragons eating sweets talking to yourself is a surefire way to end up as a manchild

People like us never lifted off and stayed in the lonely pathetic daydream comfort zone.

im on the verge of going schizo bcuz of this shit

 

[Abhorrence]

god damn

 

[Deleted member 1903]

im on the verge of going schizo bcuz of this shit

What's your day to day life like? Do you go school then home? Do you go out with friends often? You said you play sports semi regularly.

 

[Abhorrence]

What's your day to day life like? Do you go school then home? Do you go out with friends often? You said you play sports semi regularly.

do the bare minimum go out with friends once in a blue moon
the rest of the time i waste daydreaming(liek 90% of my total time)

 

[Deleted member 1903]

do the bare minimum go out with friends once in a blue moon
the rest of the time i waste daydreaming(liek 90% of my total time)

Why don't you want to do anything?

 

[Abhorrence]

Why don't you want to do anything?

idk
learned helplessness and such

 

[Deleted member 1903]

idk
learned helplessness and such

Same idek anymore but I am looking for job rn. Job will solve problems 100%

 

[Abhorrence]

Same idek anymore but I am looking for job rn. Job will solve problems 100%

job wont solve shit its all in le head

 

[Deleted member 1903]

job wont solve shit its all in le head

Job = money for looksmaxxing, hobbies, vidya