Discussion Worst part about being a NEET

[Friezacel]

That you have way too much free time. The closest thing to being a NEET was around 3 years ago after i was done writing my final exams in school and after that i didnt do anything for over 3 months. Doing nothing drives me insane, especially because i have almost no friends and all i did pretty much was rotting at home, playing vidya, jerking off, watching porn and goyslopmaxxed. Its just the same cycle every fucking day and since i have been pretty much isolated my whole life. I missed out on important milestones like teen love or being part of a social circle and missing these milestones broke me and left me irreversibly scarred.

 

[IGiveUp]

When I didn’t had free time growing up I thought about all the things I can watch and the skills I can develop with the free time. Now that I almost have all the free time I want I don’t do anything useful with it

 

[Friezacel]

When I didn’t had free time growing up I thought about all the things I can watch and the skills I can develop with the free time. Now that I almost have all the free time I want I don’t do anything useful with it

Watching series gets boring after a while. I dont even have the attention span to watch series without getting distracted, thats how fucked my dopamine receptors are.

Also i never developed any talents. I tried learning languages but got quickly bored/didnt have the motivation to finish what i started

 

[c-barreda]

Boredom

 

[Friezacel]

Boredom

true

 

[dark]

i live in this rotting cycle

 

[Friezacel]

i live in this rotting cycle

Unfortunately it will never end

 

[god.ly]

That's the best part
Just don't do the same things all the time theory?
Work on something big

 

[iDONTwannaBeME]

Even worse if you hate yourself for being a recluse, all your failures and suffering are multiplied by hatred.

Normies would have killed themselves by this point, i might do it soon too, 5+ years as hiki is too much. Cant enjoy anything.

Atleast u have friends, you might be able to change your situation through them

 

[クーロ]

At first it wasn't that different to me since the only reason I went outside was for school. Have a few hours of empty time was good to develop some skills and hobbies but I ended up doing nothing without that feeling of discipline when you have to get up at the same hour every morning and maintain a routine. I believe in the idea of too much freedom because that's exactly my experience. I had the freedom to do everything, and ended up doing nothing

 

[Friezacel]

Just don't do the same things all the time theory?

there is not much i can do as sub5 autist

I already tried learning skills in the past, but due to my ADD i find it impossible to focus on something for longer than a few minutes

 

[god.ly]

there is not much i can do as sub5 autist

I already tried learning skills in the past, but due to my ADD i find it impossible to focus on something for longer than a few minutes

Hop on raw meat diet

 

[Friezacel]

Even worse if you hate yourself for being a recluse, all your failures and suffering are multiplied by hatred.

this. i fucking hate myself so much its unreal

Atleast u have friends, you might be able to change your situation through them

I have one real friend to be precise. I meet him maybe once a month but i dont get really much social interaction outside of these meetings

 

[Friezacel]

Hop on raw meat diet

bro im stoned as shit right now and not even i would come up with such a clownish "solution"

 

[Deleted member 1903]

Because our life has no structure. We don't have jobs, never worked in our teens or did any form of small business like reselling or running a stall, never had proper social lives, and never got taught anything like a language or sport nor did we ever have 'plans' for the weekend etc. Tbh I did swimming classes during the summer when I was a kid and was too pussy to leave the coping. It is what it is, we're just meant to be lazy and passive.

 

[Friezacel]

Because our life has no structure. We don't have jobs, never worked in our teens or did any form of small business like reselling or running a stall, never had proper social lives, and never got taught anything like a language or sport nor did we ever have 'plans' for the weekend etc. Tbh I did swimming classes during the summer when I was a kid and was too pussy to leave the coping. It is what it is, we're just meant to be lazy and passive.

Our fate was sealed from day 1. It wouldnt even matter if my parents sent me to some sports club or language course because i would just have been hated by everybody like always

 

[Deleted member 1903]

Our fate was sealed from day 1. It wouldnt even matter if my parents sent me to some sports club or language course because i would just have been hated by everybody like always

If you have insufferable personality yh but solving insecurities/flaws should improve your personality because you won't be as defensive, whiny or easy to pick on.

 

[Friezacel]

If you have insufferable personality yh but solving insecurities/flaws should improve your personality because you won't be as defensive, whiny or easy to pick on.

Im literally diagnosed aspie, aint much i can do about it

 

[Deleted member 1903]

Im literally diagnosed aspie, aint much i can do about it

What makes you insufferable specifically?

 

[Friezacel]

What makes you insufferable specifically?

Being turbo manlet, having Aspergers and ADD, having a subhuman and monotone voice

 

[ShoelessSperg]

That you have way too much free time. The closest thing to being a NEET was around 3 years ago after i was done writing my final exams in school and after that i didnt do anything for over 3 months. Doing nothing drives me insane, especially because i have almost no friends and all i did pretty much was rotting at home, playing vidya, jerking off, watching porn and goyslopmaxxed. Its just the same cycle every fucking day and since i have been pretty much isolated my whole life. I missed out on important milestones like teen love or being part of a social circle and missing these milestones broke me and left me irreversibly scarred.

The worst part about being a neet is feeling like you was left behind everyone else become main stream imagine you go down the Amazon river but we are all fuck ups that never made to be like everyone else. I feel so sad and isolated at times my heart hurts so much

 

[BlackOps2Enjoyer1]

Being a depressed fuck and getting no sunlight will eventually kill your libido anyways, the gooning problem will fix itself, and not gooning might fix others

 

[Brother Wagecuck]

and wagecucks have no time. so pick your poison.

 

[Moondust]

That's the best part
Just don't do the same things all the time theory?
Work on something big

Yea op is actually just depressed and trying to blame it on being neet. If he said this to your average 50 hour a week office job normie with kids who legit has maybe 15 minutes of free time a day they'd throttle him

 

[Moondust]

and wagecucks have no time. so pick your poison.

Obviously having free time is a million times better lol. You're an incredibly dishonest ungrateful little prick if you say otherwise

 

[Moondust]

Being a depressed fuck and getting no sunlight will eventually kill your libido anyways, the gooning problem will fix itself, and not gooning might fix others

Damn I'm a 30 year old semi depressed fuck and worked night shift for 8 months and still have morning boners and insta boners when seeing White Women in public and regularly dream about White Women lol.

Just last week I had a dream about tracking down my White Mommy Waifu lol

 

[BlackOps2Enjoyer1]

Damn I'm a 30 year old semi depressed fuck and worked night shift for 8 months and still have morning boners and insta boners when seeing White Women in public and regularly dream about White Women lol.

Just last week I had a dream about tracking down my White Mommy Waifu lol

Damn bro I'm a sucker for mommy stuff too but is not 30 yo too old to be into that? Still you're gonna make it bro, there's plenty of girls into being called mommy

 

[BlackOps2Enjoyer1]

Damn I'm a 30 year old semi depressed fuck and worked night shift for 8 months and still have morning boners and insta boners when seeing White Women in public and regularly dream about White Women lol.

Just last week I had a dream about tracking down my White Mommy Waifu lol

They also might be into other fucked up stuff besides being called mommy tho so keep that in mind

 

[MelaninQueen]

If I weren't suffering from anhedonia (PAWS/post-SSRİ withdrawal), I would be fully enjoying my free time.

 

[MelaninQueen]

Atleast u have friends

Friendships are overrated...

 

[MelaninQueen]

develop some skills

You have to take the genetic cap into account. There's plenty of research papers around skill acquiring and its correlation with IQ.

Not everyone is meant to have a wide skillset.

 

[MelaninQueen]

Because our life has no structure. We don't have jobs, never worked in our teens or did any form of small business like reselling or running a stall, never had proper social lives, and never got taught anything like a language or sport nor did we ever have 'plans' for the weekend etc. Tbh I did swimming classes during the summer when I was a kid and was too pussy to leave the coping. It is what it is, we're just meant to be lazy and passive.

People from my age (4-5 years ago) obtained their first job through SOCİAL CONNECTİONS. I consider friendships as something that has been overly overrated around neurodivergent forums, but the only positive aspect about them is the career prospect.

A friendless adult will greatly struggle when it comes to job hunting, let alone succeeding in academia (thus the importance of IQ).

 

[Friezacel]

Being a depressed fuck and getting no sunlight will eventually kill your libido anyways, the gooning problem will fix itself, and not gooning might fix others

I still have extreme libido and i doubt it will get better the next years

 

[Friezacel]

Yea op is actually just depressed and trying to blame it on being neet. If he said this to your average 50 hour a week office job normie with kids who legit has maybe 15 minutes of free time a day they'd throttle him

Im not blamint neetdom. If you ready carefully i said that i was NEET for only 3 months and currently im a wagie.

Also i dont know where you live but 50h/week is uncommon in my country, the norm is 40h/week

 

[Friezacel]

Damn bro I'm a sucker for mommy stuff too but is not 30 yo too old to be into that? Still you're gonna make it bro, there's plenty of girls into being called mommy

We are not all gonna make it. If there are winners in life there are also have to be losers. And we happen to be these losers

 

[Friezacel]

People from my age (4-5 years ago) obtained their first job through SOCİAL CONNECTİONS. I consider friendships as something that has been overly overrated around neurodivergent forums, but the only positive aspect about them is the career prospect.

A friendless adult will greatly struggle when it comes to job hunting, let alone succeeding in academia (thus the importance of IQ).

Maybe friendship is overrated for you but i value it. At the end of the day we are social animals and live off the validation we get from our tribe. And when i see outside all these friendgroups running around i get extremely depressed because i know i never was and i never will be the part of a social circle and i will always be a social outcast who has been banished from his tribe since day 1

 

[Moondust]

Im not blamint neetdom. If you ready carefully i said that i was NEET for only 3 months and currently im a wagie.

Also i dont know where you live but 50h/week is uncommon in my country, the norm is 40h/week

If u cant go 3 months of chill neet time without feeling shit the problem is you, not neetdom. Even normies have vacations of a month or two.

And thats why i said average office normie who has to pay for kids too. If ur childless yea u can do 30 to 40 hours a week

 

[Moondust]

We are not all gonna make it. If there are winners in life there are also have to be losers. And we happen to be these losers

Who says it has to be a zero sum game?

 

[Moondust]

Damn bro I'm a sucker for mommy stuff too but is not 30 yo too old to be into that? Still you're gonna make it bro, there's plenty of girls into being called mommy

Im gonna be 31 in a few months jfl. Mommy is a mindset, not just about age . Even teen girls are mommy to me cuz its a throwback to being a little kid and teen white mommies were surrogate mommy babysitters

Unfortunately I don't think barely any 5+ girls are into being domme or being called mommy jfl

 

[MelaninQueen]

Maybe friendship is overrated for you but i value it. At the end of the day we are social animals and live off the validation we get from our tribe. And when i see outside all these friendgroups running around i get extremely depressed because i know i never was and i never will be the part of a social circle and i will always be a social outcast who has been banished from his tribe since day 1

I'm not neurotypical.

 

[Friezacel]

Even normies have vacations of a month or two.

Yeah but they have six gorillion friends and often also a gf they can meet anytime, unlike me

 

[Friezacel]

Who says it has to be a zero sum game?

what does that even mean

 

[Friezacel]

I'm not neurotypical.

same

 

[Moondust]

Yeah but they have six gorillion friends and often also a gf they can meet anytime, unlike me

So the real problem is your lonely, not neetdom

what does that even mean

Zero sum game means someone has to win whenever someone loses.

If winning is +1 and losing is -1 the total sum of wins and losses always sums up to 0. Hence the name

 

[Friezacel]

So the real problem is your lonely, not neetdom

There is a strong corelation between these two

 

[Friezacel]

Zero sum game means someone has to win whenever someone loses.

If winning is +1 and losing is -1 the total sum of wins and losses always sums up to 0. Hence the name

Is it wrong tho ? If there are winners, there also have to be losers. Being a winner is seen as special because not everyone will. If everyone would win then the title of being a winner would be worthless

 

[Moondust]

Is it wrong tho ? If there are winners, there also have to be losers. Being a winner is seen as special because not everyone will will. If everyone would win then the title of being a winner would be worthless

Well yes in a narcissistic status sense thats true. I thought you meant economically. Capitalism isnt zero sum I don't think. Altho ive heard before only reason the west is rich is cuz of exploited third world so id have to do more research

But even in the narcy sense you can have different talents that chads not good at

 

[Friezacel]

But even in the narcy sense you can have different talents that chads not good at

Lets be honest, no amount of talents or skills will make up for missing out on teen love and being a complete social outcast. When Chad is old he can look back to the gold old times when he slayed prime pussy and everyone loved him, but what can we look back at ?

 

[Pirate]

That's the best part
Just don't do the same things all the time theory?
Work on something big

like what nglperhaps

 

[Moondust]

Lets be honest, no amount of talents or skills will make up for missing out on teen love and being a complete social outcast. When Chad is old he can look back to the gold old times when he slayed prime pussy and everyone loved him, but what can we look back at ?

Theres a very interesting article about this that u shud read.

The Gervais Principle IV: Wonderful Human Beings

www.ribbonfarm.com

Goes into the whole millenial idea we were spoonfed that we're all special and somehow all above average, sociology of office and life hierarchies, workplace sociology, etc

It uses examples from the show the office but you dont need to have watched it to understand it. Especially since u have an office job.

The writer is very smart