Venting Moving out, mom trying to prevent this

[WestEuropoor]

I posted a thread not too long ago about moving out because i can get a house for cheap to rent (am 25yo and hous is sub 300 a month rent after poorfag rental deduction)

However my parents seem to be not happy about it, i knew my mom in particular would always object. My father doesnt care truly and thinks its cool but my mom is making him upset. Now i told her i am moving out (for her out of the blue) and ofc she went insane. How i could not leave her alone and that her other children had done the same etc etc. Now you must know my mom is a person of conflict, its also always someone elses fault. She hates neighbours, other family (non existent frens) and whoever she had known for longer than 2 weeks. It just sucks how she is going to ghost me for the remaining 3 weeks and going to give me death stares. I have been evading any discussion for a few years now with her since she has become more grumpy as she aged. She just loves to argue and get into discussion and i just want to be left alone lmao. she did break all contact with different family members and then reconnected later again for like 8 times afaik and every time i would ask she would say she could never get along with such people (which i knew was bs obv lol)

It gives me some comfort that my rental will be a 1,5 hour drive away from where i lived all my life. She can't just go and visit me whenever so she can keep trying to control my life. I don't really have friends i will miss regardless and i don't really have good connections with the rest of my family because my mom has always had arguments with everyone and talking to people she hated for 0 reason was like betraying her and she would cry, manipulate and whatnot.

I will just continue to get neetbuxx and live on my own in a different house, just different surrounding. Only thing i could possibly miss are the old family dog and local pubs. But i am sure the shithole i am moving to also has a pub. After all i don't drink socially i just drink to feel different so idc if i know anyone over there or not.

In fact nothing will change except for the clearing of the room tension plus being able to masturbate in the living room

Thanks for reading

 

[THE NEWer HONKLER]

Thanks for reading

your welcome

 

[NeverEndingWinter]

$300 for a room, apartment or whole house?

 

[THE NEWer HONKLER]

$300 for a room, apartment or whole house?

yeah

 

[WestEuropoor]

yeah

stop postmaxxing

 

[WestEuropoor]

$300 for a room, apartment or whole house?

whole house, no cap.

its a region where less people live and not really major cities around though, but since its the netherlands its all relatively speaking since the country is so small. cost without poorfag rent reduction would be around 500. free market rental would be around double that but since its socialised rental its low price

 

[NeverEndingWinter]

whole house, no cap.

its a region where less people live and not really major cities around though, but since its the netherlands its all relatively speaking since the country is so small. cost without poorfag rent reduction would be around 500. free market rental would be around double that but since its socialised rental its low price

Mogs me hard. That sounds comfy asf

 

[WestEuropoor]

Mogs me hard. That sounds comfy asf

not saying the house is big though, its your average dutch home but maybe a bit smaller but not by too much. but my backyard is way larger than its over here plus i am living alone so enough space.

The town is small but does have a supermarket, GP, few restaurants and 2 small takeaways. Also if i were LDAR'ing too hard i could volunteer at the local sports team on the weekends to get myself involved with the new surroundings which i think is important in a small town where basically everyone knows eachother and there is way more social control than in a big city.


Another big benefitsmaxxing move i made

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

I posted a thread not too long ago about moving out because i can get a house for cheap to rent (am 25yo and hous is sub 300 a month rent after poorfag rental deduction)

However my parents seem to be not happy about it, i knew my mom in particular would always object. My father doesnt care truly and thinks its cool but my mom is making him upset. Now i told her i am moving out (for her out of the blue) and ofc she went insane. How i could not leave her alone and that her other children had done the same etc etc. Now you must know my mom is a person of conflict, its also always someone elses fault. She hates neighbours, other family (non existent frens) and whoever she had known for longer than 2 weeks. It just sucks how she is going to ghost me for the remaining 3 weeks and going to give me death stares. I have been evading any discussion for a few years now with her since she has become more grumpy as she aged. She just loves to argue and get into discussion and i just want to be left alone lmao. she did break all contact with different family members and then reconnected later again for like 8 times afaik and every time i would ask she would say she could never get along with such people (which i knew was bs obv lol)

It gives me some comfort that my rental will be a 1,5 hour drive away from where i lived all my life. She can't just go and visit me whenever so she can keep trying to control my life. I don't really have friends i will miss regardless and i don't really have good connections with the rest of my family because my mom has always had arguments with everyone and talking to people she hated for 0 reason was like betraying her and she would cry, manipulate and whatnot.

I will just continue to get neetbuxx and live on my own in a different house, just different surrounding. Only thing i could possibly miss are the old family dog and local pubs. But i am sure the shithole i am moving to also has a pub. After all i don't drink socially i just drink to feel different so idc if i know anyone over there or not.

In fact nothing will change except for the clearing of the room tension plus being able to masturbate in the living room

Thanks for reading

Your mom reminds me of what mine used to be like. Except I used to out argue her like a retarded autist.

 

[WestEuropoor]

Your mom reminds me of what mine used to be like. Except I used to out argue her like a retarded autist.

i did that until i turned 22. at one point i just gave up and decided it was better for my mental health to just avoid arguing because its going nowhere regardless if you agree of disagree with her. She just slanders other people all the time for no reason and gets mad when she thinks i don't think its funny.

 

[incelkingkong]

life in netherlands is hard!

 

[WestEuropoor]

life in netherlands is hard!

life on hard mode obv

 

[Asylum Patient]

Almost sounds to good to be true but I believe you. 300 for a house..damn. But that didn't happen over night right? You probably where on a long waiting list to get that spot I assume. Also what do you do if they cut/sanction your neetbux?

 

[CelticKHV]

It isn't possible to get a rental house as a poor man where I live unless you are a woman or a man with children. They use housing lists and actual homeless men wait for years on list. A single man who isn't currently homeless has no chance.
There is a single mother in my area who got kicked out of her house for having loud arguments with boyfriend and she got a local rental straight away.

 

[WestEuropoor]

Almost sounds to good to be true but I believe you. 300 for a house..damn. But that didn't happen over night right? You probably where on a long waiting list to get that spot I assume. Also what do you do if they cut/sanction your neetbux?

why would they cut my neetbuxx?. the reason my rent is that low is because i know every way around, i am neetbuxxmaxxer.

I waited for like 4 years before i got this house in a place where obviously nobody wants to live because its isolated

''its a region where less people live and not really major cities around though, but since its the netherlands its all relatively speaking since the country is so small. cost without poorfag rent reduction would be around 500. free market rental would be around double that but since its socialised rental its low price''

if you do it right you can reek in so many benefits in this socialist hole

 

[Anime waifus ok]

I wish you the best of luck.

 

[reisen]

"How i could not leave her alone and that her other children had done the same etc etc."

My mom has tried this exact trick. Just go for it if you think you're ready.