uglyboi1
neet for almost 9 yrs never worked hand atrophy
- Dec 12, 2021
- 5,065
So me (F 21) and this guy (M 24) have been dating for a Lil while ( 7 months) and yes we did have a Rocky start but everythings going good rn , now onto the issue. Few days ago i posted a photo on Instagram and a friend of mine (F 22) commented on it hyping me up, the next morning i go to respond to her and clicked on her account i see that (giving him a fake name) pencil had followed her and liked most of her posts , i freak out
So obviously when I seen that pencil followed her my mind began racing, i confronted him and asked him why he liked her lingerie photos (shouldn't have asked him that ik , should've just told him about the past straight up i was having a wee lil insecure moment) , he apologized and just said " i didn't think much about it I just followed her cause her posts are nice " he unfollowed her and i did end up telling him about how the whole situation and what happened in the past . He apologized again
Anyways it's been a few days now and i catch myself panicking, wondering if it'll happen all over again , i know it's just me overthinking but how do I get myself to think more logically and stop having moments of terror, (i fear relapsing into that depression my ex gave me)
(Oh and me and pencil aren't ldr , my first ex and his ex are across the globe)
TD;LR : my bf liked and followed the same girl who my ex simped over during our relationship
- Um that's kinda weird why you following my friend who you haven't met
- Omds why tf are you following the girl who my ex wanted over me
So obviously when I seen that pencil followed her my mind began racing, i confronted him and asked him why he liked her lingerie photos (shouldn't have asked him that ik , should've just told him about the past straight up i was having a wee lil insecure moment) , he apologized and just said " i didn't think much about it I just followed her cause her posts are nice " he unfollowed her and i did end up telling him about how the whole situation and what happened in the past . He apologized again
Anyways it's been a few days now and i catch myself panicking, wondering if it'll happen all over again , i know it's just me overthinking but how do I get myself to think more logically and stop having moments of terror, (i fear relapsing into that depression my ex gave me)
(Oh and me and pencil aren't ldr , my first ex and his ex are across the globe)
TD;LR : my bf liked and followed the same girl who my ex simped over during our relationship
